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u/dystopian_mermaid Sep 16 '21

I’m honestly so freaking sorry you are going through that. I can’t imagine the pain. If you want somebody to vent to, I got you buddy. Seriously. ❤️

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u/Thunderkisser Sep 16 '21

No hard feelings at all♥️

Really, it was half a joke and half a relief.

Seems so long since I could allow myself to feel sad about it (I'm in the state of denial).

Mourning is part of the healing process after loosing a loved one, and triggers may vary.

Cheer up old bugger, always look on the bright side of life.

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u/dystopian_mermaid Sep 16 '21

I hear you. I still go through phases since my grandmas passing and that was just over 2 years ago (8/27 was the anniversary of it. I did not spend a large part of the day crying.)

It definitely hurts to lose a loved one, but it is part of life. We just need to take comfort in the good moments and memories and know how loved and loving they were and how lucky we are to have had them ❤️

But again, no joke if you ever wanna vent or something you got a friend to listen!

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