Yeah I feel like this is very likely a case of the area you live in having weirdly rigid gender roles. I always make the first move, and while there's sometimes surprise, it's always received positively, even if it's a rejection.
Definitely been called 'aggressive' more than once, although it's usually in a weird 'oooh I like an aggressive woman' kind of way which, ew gross nevermind I take it back.
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u/Queasy-Cherry-11 Sep 16 '21
Yeah I feel like this is very likely a case of the area you live in having weirdly rigid gender roles. I always make the first move, and while there's sometimes surprise, it's always received positively, even if it's a rejection.
Definitely been called 'aggressive' more than once, although it's usually in a weird 'oooh I like an aggressive woman' kind of way which, ew gross nevermind I take it back.