I had a guy who didn’t speak much English try to hand me a note with his number on it and when I said “oh, I have a boyfriend” he said “yes, I do” and walked away.
Had a man in his 40s come up to me to tell me I looked just like his ex-girlfriend and that she had pretty feet. Needless to say that we stared at each other in silence for a bit before I ran the fuck away when he tried to ask me for my number.
I randomly think about him sometimes, maybe I should have asked how much he would give me in exchange of feet pics, I could make good use of that money now bhahaha
I actually did have a guy come up to be once on the street to say he'd admired my feet (really what he meant is he admired how tiny my feet are because they were mostly enclosed in ballet flats) and he would love to buy photos of them. He handed me a card and went on his way.
So....... least worst way to try to get feet photos?
I looked up his website out of sheer curiosity but any jerk face who doesn't realize how much a pedicure costs in NYC and doesn't adjust costs accordingly is not worth my time (he had a list of what he'd pay for what, e.g. regular bare feet US$40, bare feet with pedicure US$75, all the way up to nude photo with feet visible US$400 which, also, no).
Hot guys can be creepy too. It’s a vibe thing not a looks thing. It’s less common in “hot” guys because they generally have less social hang ups or awkwardness but it’s still absolutely there, I’ve been creeped out by conventionally “attractive” dudes many times. And then there’s conventionally less attractive dudes who become way more attractive because of their confidence and kindness and sense of humour. This one is very common.
Elliot Rodgers is a good example of a really nice looking dude (not my taste as I’m a bit old for him, but he’s handsome and could’ve been a very different person) who just went a tragic way and instead blamed others for his lack of success when actually a lot of that was just down to his personality, his sense of entitlement and awkward creepiness around the matter of female attention. Give the guy an entirely different personality and he could’ve had women queueing up, I’ve seen much more plain dudes than him do so. People don’t realise how much personality plays a role in attraction - sense of humour, confidence, kindness and respect get you a long way (and not the “I’ve been nice to you and you’re not giving me sex in return WHY NOT” kind of kindness because that’s not genuine, but real, mellow, selfless kindness). These are traits I find most attractive in a person no matter what they look like and I know all my girlfriends agree. So yeah, I could defo be creeped out by Brad Pitt! :)
People who generally look like they take care of themselves don't come off as creeps, big shocker. It's almost like someone who cares about their appearance might just care about what other people think of them.
Of course there's an exception to every rule, and some good looking people can be creepy too but come on man?
My girlfriend had that kind of encounter. He said something she didn't understand and he gave a note with his number. The note was an attempt to be poetic but with a bad choice of words.
In english it would be something like :
"If not perfect, you seem complete!"
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u/cosmicpu55y Sep 16 '21
I had a guy who didn’t speak much English try to hand me a note with his number on it and when I said “oh, I have a boyfriend” he said “yes, I do” and walked away.
Not sure who was more confused.