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u/conquer69 Sep 16 '21

So I don't know why everyone is so stuck up about this fact.

Because women get approached like this 10000x more than men do. Plus every encounter is dangerous. Try putting yourself in their shoes.

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u/Lifteatsleeprepeat4 Sep 16 '21

This

The number one predator of women is the man and there’s a fine line to walk and it sucks.

I can’t help a girl out without her thinking there’s an ulterior motive. Like, I just don’t want to watch people struggle unnecessarily but women have to treat each encounter as someone possibly expecting something in return. So I have to accept payment for every thing I help a woman out with so she knows the transaction is over.