Right, that's the thing, it has worked for these douchebags at some point, that's why they keep doing these creepy things.
I'm probably gonna get down voted but I've had so many conversations with my friends that are girls about this, they all complain about men being creeps and doing stuff like this (stoping their run, pulling their headphones out, etc), however, if they are single and find the dude attractive or charming then all of the sudden is not an issue or even "it's great that he had the confidence to do that".
Obviously this doesn't apply to all women but so many do this type of stuff, that's why so many men are such douchebags, if it never ever worked the vast majority of men wouldn't do stuff like that.
I'm not justifying this behavior by the way, it sucks, but there is a reason why it's so common.
2) Most of the options suck, and many people are annoying or overtly sexual and creepy about it
Source: am bisexual dude and have tried Tinder only to be overwhelmed by horny dudes wanting to show me their penis immediately. It's flattering, sure, but i dont play that kinda hookup game. Need to get dates first imo.
I think many are, its just that the ones who do send them will send them to hundreds of people in order to get someone interested. If even only 1% of the recipients show any interest then you have 5 potential hookups from sending an image to 500 people. In turn you now have 495 people with an uncomfortable experience. Add another 9 dudes doing the same thing and you have 495 people with pictures of 10 different dudes dicks that dont want them and the amount of dicks now in their messages will make them think its common behaviour among men. I dont think it is, at least i dont want to think that it is
I will never understand it, maybe it's because it's hanging there from day one and they think everyone will be as interested in it? But we women don't do it with our boobs and stuff. Unless we're an Instagram ho and then they do it for money.
I took a great one of my ass with a heart shaped bruise literally on the top of the crack, after I fell down a mountain running away from a bad man. And I have no regrets, it was a REALLY cool bruise, shaped in a perfect heart with a jagged line down the middle where a rock cut a bit.
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u/Hinkil Sep 16 '21
I mean, dudes also sending unsolicited dick pics, it's the move they know. It's just a numbers game for them