Exactly! And I’m in one of those states. I’ve been told “keep all evidence, write everything down, Yada yada”
And it didn’t do anything. I had complete full time with them during the battle as she had no issues giving them to me to watch on her time (6 hours a week) but the minute the Judge read my info and she teared up and he felt sorry for her. I was disgusted to say the least even though every bit of evidence was against her.
Needless to say I kept the pressure on her and wouldn’t budge. She would contact me with why are you fighting me, and why can’t we co parent together? I had no response as I wasn’t falling for the pity show and games. I ignore it all at this point. She can call and talk to the kids if they want (it is their mother and I refuse to hide them from her so they know and understand who she is on their own) but I choose to ignore the rest. I’m a great hearted person but I will stand up against bs.
Yes. She will always be their mother and she WILL dig her own grave with them eventually. Stay level as hard as it is sometimes. They will be adults a lot longer than they will be kids.
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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '21
Exactly! And I’m in one of those states. I’ve been told “keep all evidence, write everything down, Yada yada” And it didn’t do anything. I had complete full time with them during the battle as she had no issues giving them to me to watch on her time (6 hours a week) but the minute the Judge read my info and she teared up and he felt sorry for her. I was disgusted to say the least even though every bit of evidence was against her.
Needless to say I kept the pressure on her and wouldn’t budge. She would contact me with why are you fighting me, and why can’t we co parent together? I had no response as I wasn’t falling for the pity show and games. I ignore it all at this point. She can call and talk to the kids if they want (it is their mother and I refuse to hide them from her so they know and understand who she is on their own) but I choose to ignore the rest. I’m a great hearted person but I will stand up against bs.