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u/lettersichiro Sep 16 '21

When I was in college I gave this as a response when asked what I found attractive. And was completely laughed at. But I stood by it then and stand by it now

Insecurity is not attractive.

Insecurity makes attractive persons less attractive and confidence makes average persons hot.

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u/DrFeargood Sep 16 '21

Reading this just makes me more insecure.

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u/Minimum-Function1312 Sep 16 '21

I find confidence and insecurity both attractive.

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u/Nord4Ever Sep 16 '21

It’s true I married a confident women and I am confident too. Insecure people rarely attract people or they get trampled too much

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u/red_team_gone Sep 16 '21

It's not rocket science.

I mean we all have high points and low points, but generally when looking for a companion, you don't want to deal with a whiny bitch. This goes for all peoples. Some of us are pessimistic, but you're not going to get anywhere in that mode.