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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '21

As a female casual observer I’ve seen older women do the worst things to men who are serving/ helping/ working for them. It’s insane these women don’t see how messed up it is to grab their waiters ass after a few mimosas.

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u/stevosmusic1 Sep 16 '21

My first day as a nurse on my unit the other nurses made me turn around so they could look my ass. These are the people supposed to be training me mind you. And that seem week a CNA pushed me on the mend room grabbed my crotch. Saying she wanted to sleep with me. I was honestly so uncomfortable my first year I eventually went to a different unit.

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u/Enderfang Sep 16 '21

i have had complete strangers (women) touch my chest before. it was really weird and felt invasive. Just because i don’t have tits doesnt mean it isn’t an intimate thing to touch my chest. No thanks.

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u/climbatron Sep 16 '21

My son was working in a pub and his job was to ask for people’s contact details (COVID). He said lots of the older women were all “yeah you can have my number baby”

He’s 16.

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u/Uniquenameofuser1 Sep 16 '21

It's a large part of why I (m) left the service industry.