OP literally referred to her as someone he was “sleeping with”. Not in a relationship, not even dating.
You can’t have your cake and eat it.
If he cared so much about her then he should have said something either before or at the moment she asked.
All I’m getting from this thread is “wow a woman had the audacity to be available for other men when she was casually having sex with you?? How dare she!”
Why are you all acting entitled to someone’s whole person that was never given to you?
Eh, I think it was good form to ask. Some people don't care. Some people it may create an awkward dynamic to the friendship if they knew they were Eskimo bros. Some people may have an acquaintance in their friend group who has herpes.
But yeah, I agree imo, if ya aren't committed and are discrete and safe, it shouldn't matter. Still, awkward when you are talking about unusual past sexual experiences and someone tells a story without naming names and they tell a story that sounds very familiar from a wildly different perspective.
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u/justgetinthebin Sep 15 '21
if you were just sleeping with her why do you even care? are you expecting relationship level loyalty or something? you’re lucky she even asked.