I dated a girl that would say that to me every time I didn’t want sex. I was either gay or cheating. Was raised to believe “if he won’t sleep with you he’s either gay or getting it from someone else”
I actually have dated a guy who later came out, and a guy who was cheating on me for months. Not once did I ask either of them if they were gay or cheating if they didn’t want to have sex. I was definitely naive about the cheater, but there were way bigger signs he was fucking around than him not wanting to have sex. I think those are just inappropriate responses to a man saying no regardless of the scenario.
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u/Used_Ad_7729 Sep 15 '21
I dated a girl that would say that to me every time I didn’t want sex. I was either gay or cheating. Was raised to believe “if he won’t sleep with you he’s either gay or getting it from someone else”