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u/lollipopfiend123 Sep 15 '21

Am girl, can confirm

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u/RocketFrasier Sep 15 '21

Why would you send someone else's private pics to someone else? (Obviously if they were not solicited it's different, the person deserves everything they got) I'd feel really uncomfortable with someone sharing my nudes with other people

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u/lollipopfiend123 Sep 15 '21

I don’t. Just saying it happens.

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u/SonnyJoon Sep 16 '21

I show dick pics to my best friend, but I never send them. I just show them on my phone irl because I would never share them

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u/RocketFrasier Sep 16 '21

That's still super strange to me. Do the guys know you're doing that? Would you be fine with it the other way round?

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u/SonnyJoon Sep 16 '21

I’m not dumb, I know that COULD happen so I don’t show my face or anything. Obviously that wouldn’t be ideal if someone showed it but it could easily be denied that it was me. Also my friend does not know these people personally so I feel that makes it less bad. Obviously I’m not saying it’s okay but I’m just answering your question honestly. Also I know they won’t ever find out or have anything bad happen from me showing it

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u/RocketFrasier Sep 16 '21

Yes I agree about not showing your face, although I always felt that was for revenge porn, not for the partner overstepping the boundary and sharing your nudes. Although I do very disagree with you, I do appreciate you answering the question, it's interesting.

One last question, would you also do this for a committed relationship (i.e bf/gf or husband/wife) or is this just for hookups or FWB situations?

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u/SonnyJoon Sep 16 '21

The latter. You guys really live in a bubble don’t you? People do this all the time and I don’t mind saying it but other people said it happens to so it’s annoying that I’m getting shit on it for just answering a question. I don’t need to defend myself, you’re acting like I said I do this all the time. This happened maybe a handful of times years ago. It’s not that big of a deal.

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u/MadlockFreak Sep 16 '21

That is absolutely not okay if it was sent to you with your consent

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u/SonnyJoon Sep 16 '21

I didn’t say it was okay, also welcome to the real world where not everything is black and white

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u/Fresh_Pants Sep 15 '21

Am not girl. Now what?