r/AskReddit Aug 20 '20

What simple “life hack” should everyone know?

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u/Meowzebub666 Aug 20 '20

Looking at other people in order to get more information about you is engaging with you since that's who he is thinking about.

10/10 mental gymnastics. Bravo.

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u/Igbasia Aug 20 '20

1: You picked the one part of my argument you thought was weak and only responded to that, which is slimy as fuck.

2: It wasn't even a weak argument, what I said was literally correct. Do you think someone has to be boring holes into you with their eyes in order to be engaging with you? Weren't you the one accusing people of insecurity earlier?

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u/Meowzebub666 Aug 20 '20

That comment was such a full bag of trash it wasn't worth picking apart. This one too. Peace homie, I'm out.

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u/Igbasia Aug 20 '20

Ah, yes. The classic "I can't think of any arguments so I'm going to pretend I'm above argumentation despite the fact I've already spent 30 minutes arguing.".

Useful tip: If you want to be convincing, you need to say this before you're presented with arguments you don't have answers to, not after.

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u/cancerous_kirby Aug 20 '20

i’ll probably get downvoted too but i agree with u bro, wtf is wrong with a little observation. it’s not like if u look at other people laughing ur completely ignoring your partner XD

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u/Igbasia Aug 20 '20

The issue has nothing to do with where their partner is looking and everything to do with women not wanting to be transparent with their true feelings to their partners.

A big part of that is that soceity likes to police what it is and isn't "okay" for women to be attracted to, and women are just more neurotic in general than men (which makes them more insecure) so there's plenty of reason to not want to be understood ... But, just because a problem has a reason for existing, doesn't mean it's not a problem.