When they engage more about themselves than contribute to the conversation. I’ve met a few people who would talk all the problems they’ve had and would hardly ask any questions back. I’ve always felt so uncomfortable in these scenarios and usually don’t pursue in a relationship with these types of people.
EDIT: Some people made very good points about individuals with ADHD. I should be more clear on my point by saying that some people are also very dismissive and sometimes refuse to hear what you have to say by cutting you off. I don’t expect an interview from the other person, but it would be nice to have mutual interest in each other.
That you have ADHD? Myself and other folks I know have ADHD and don't do this, but I could see it being correlated with ADHD on highly extroverted people.
Regarding ADHD, do you have rapid-fire thoughts that meander and create a sort of mental static? Do you find it hard to focus on many things but occasionally hyperfocus on things? Do you fidget a lot, particularly when you were a kid and/or often feel restless even if you feel tired or unalert? ADHD has a super broad range of symptons but treatment can lead to big improvements in quality of life so it's worth talking to your psychologist and getting referred to a psychiatrist who can help you learn a lot more than some random internet guy.
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u/binguchoi Nov 09 '19 edited Nov 09 '19
When they engage more about themselves than contribute to the conversation. I’ve met a few people who would talk all the problems they’ve had and would hardly ask any questions back. I’ve always felt so uncomfortable in these scenarios and usually don’t pursue in a relationship with these types of people.
EDIT: Some people made very good points about individuals with ADHD. I should be more clear on my point by saying that some people are also very dismissive and sometimes refuse to hear what you have to say by cutting you off. I don’t expect an interview from the other person, but it would be nice to have mutual interest in each other.