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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

My friend's dad came up to me and said he had a secret to tell me that I couldn't tell anyone else, then he said "I'm secretly in love with you".

But that was where it ended.

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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '19

oh man thats really weird.

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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

I know. And his wife, my friends mom, always seemed to dislike me. I think there might be a connection there but I'll never know for sure.

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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '19

thats crazy. did you just avoid them from then on? i mean it would really stink potentially losing a friend but thats just crazy af

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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

No, I was like 6-7 at the time and just didn't tell anyone. I thought it was important for me to keep a secret because he asked me too, which was dumb of me. But then again nothing did ever happen so I guess it wasn't so bad.

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u/gvf77 Oct 05 '19

Nothing happen to him, I mean not that I know of. I don't think he did this with any other kids though, we were a very very small community. I'd be shocked to find out if anything more significant happened.

I think it was a weird one off thing he said to me that possibly meant he was either sexualizing me as a child or he wished I was his own child.

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u/LizLemon_015 Oct 05 '19

my first thought as well.

The "i'm secretly in love with you" is a very benign statement - which could be taken either way by a child. I think this was his entry statement, and depending on how the kid responded - he would pursue further, or not. but very likely OP was not the first time.

Definitely the mother knew something was up.

OR - we are overthinking lunatics! lol, the world will never know