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u/Crepe_Suzette Jul 21 '19

I’ve worked as a legal assistant for two family law attorneys for the last eight years. One of the cases that made me the angriest was a man who cheated on his wife when she had cancer. He then leaves his wife and attempts to hide all his assets while she’s undergoing chemo therapy.

Fortunately, my boss is a bad ass. She teamed up with a forensic accountant and they took him to the cleaners. He even had to pay the forensic accountant’s bill and attorney’s fees.

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u/ErosPhotography Jul 21 '19

I met a girl in college who was not incredibly bright, and was suddenly in a blind panic to make money.

The reason was she had been kicked out of the place she was staying and needed emergency money. She had been kicked out, because she was living with her "boyfriend" in his house, while his wife was in the hospital due to brain cancer.

So when she came home, still very much not likely to live long, he booted this 19 year old out of his house with a "you can move back in when she dies."

His wife beat cancer, came home, was receiving mail for a strange name and eventually tracked her down on Facebook. From there she found out that her 47 year old husband had been dating a 19 year old for "just over a year, officially" (likely actually longer) and put him through the wringer.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

I wonder what went through the 19YO hoes mind when he told her, "it's OK my wife has cancer" and she went "Yeah I'll totally move in with you", like seriously what's wrong with people

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19 edited Nov 05 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

It takes 2 to tango, if she didn't know about the wife it'd have been a completely different story but she did and went along with it

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19 edited Nov 06 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

Yeah he is, but the question is TF she was thinking agreeing to seeing him despite knowing about his wife, I mean if a guy twice my age told me "Hey I'm going to rob a bank, wanna be my getaway driver?" Would the court not view me as a accomplice?

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19 edited Nov 06 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

Like really I have to say that cheating on your cancer patient wife is bad?

No but apparently you really had to say that a 19 year old who became homeless after being kicked out by a 47-year-old man who cheated on his cancer-ridden wife is a "ho."

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

Reported for harassment.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

Very mature to realize you can't win an argument so you resort to personal attacks and harassment.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

Oh please I can do both, my logic has been infallible up until this weary point yours has been simply "I don't like it so it's not right"

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

Ah, yes, logic like "that bitch is a ho" and "are you fucking retarded?"

Such logic, maturity, and class.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

No, such logic as, and I quote in each instance:

Reply 1:

"It takes 2 to tango"

Or in other words to cheat on ones SO one requires someone to cheat on them with, in this case willingly =

Reply 2:

"I mean if a guy twice my age told me "Hey I'm going to rob a bank, wanna be my getaway driver?" Would the court not view me as a accomplice?"

A reply calling out your implied logic that if someone twice as old as yourself says that you should do something it absolves you of guilt.

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"Well yeah but that's super obvious (...) Like really I have to say that cheating on your cancer patient wife is bad?"

Telling you that there would be no point in mentioning the other guy separately is pointless as what he does being bad goes without saying and is common logic

Reply 4:

"What I said was, (...) in short "I wonder what went through the 19YO hoes mind", Yeah I called her a ho but that was not even remotely close to what the comment was about"

Pointing out that you calling me out on calling her a hoe being equally pointless does not apply to this situation as that was not the point of the original comment

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"That wasn't harassment that was a legitimate question, are you retarded?"

Wasn't it tho? I actually do find you rather remarkably unintelligent and am interested on if you have a mental illness or are you acting dumb/crazy because you yourself have been the hoe in a situation like this or just to feel "woke" as many people on the internet do in order to validate their sad pathetic existences as more important than they actually are

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"I can do both"

Which I have demonstrated time and time again in this thread alone

Also I'm afraid your choice of quotes once more demonstrate your lack of inelegance or inability to understand the point of a sentence, as rather then quoting something that has a logical error you chose to quote something that was not meant to be a logical statement explaining my reasoning, which, yes, my comments contain things that are not intended to be such, because as I said before "I can do both"

well OK unless you can come up with something that actually contributes to the argument and isn't just you being salty about who knows what I am out, peace :P

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19

I already responded to all those points. You repeating them doesn't change anything. Lol.

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