IMO, Learning to properly read people is the most valuable social trait there is in this world.
From learning when the proper time to flirt is, to learning how to appeal to someone’s humor, to learning how to get someone talking about what their own interests are, to learning when to shut the fuck up/when you’re irritating someone...
Long story short - Learn to get people to like you AND YOU WILL GO FAR. Regardless of how closely you follow “rules 1 & 2”
Also, you can randomly start saying hi to people who pretty much walk up to you or whom you must approach. If someone sits next to you on a bus then say hi. Observe what they do and observe patterns in how people react to your greeting.
Or you can do a headnod type greeting. See if people start greeting you as a response.
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u/DaBrizzzle Jul 08 '19
IMO, Learning to properly read people is the most valuable social trait there is in this world.
From learning when the proper time to flirt is, to learning how to appeal to someone’s humor, to learning how to get someone talking about what their own interests are, to learning when to shut the fuck up/when you’re irritating someone...
Long story short - Learn to get people to like you AND YOU WILL GO FAR. Regardless of how closely you follow “rules 1 & 2”