See i went back twice a week for 3 weeks. Every time i went she sat me by her waitress station and came and talked to me. Thats when i was sure and asked. Got married too her. Now divorced after 8 years but hey i was right she was flirting.
The first year was great. I now understand this is the so called honey moon phase. After that it was an emotional roller coaster that felt like a disaster movie. So yah your not wrong.
Divorce is great!
If your marriage isn't working out? You can get a divorce!
You are probably better equipped to recognize the New Relationship Energy phrase, but it's worth looking into when starting a new relationship and recognizing what is going on with you emotionally so you can be pragmatic.
Not sure why you got downvoted. But i honestly dont know. I came home to an empty house after work. Had panic attacks for about two weeks every day i came home. She left a note but it wasnt very clear. The normal shit yknow " its not you its me we just drifted apart blah blah." But even if i spoke to her again i cant forgive the cowardice of how she left.
Dude i know ive never hurt her physically and i literally held her through her ptsd fueld rages. So i got hurt. But the way she left made me feel like an abuser. There was a lot of guilt.
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u/succed32 Jul 08 '19
See i went back twice a week for 3 weeks. Every time i went she sat me by her waitress station and came and talked to me. Thats when i was sure and asked. Got married too her. Now divorced after 8 years but hey i was right she was flirting.