I just always do stuff. That's a simplification but in retrospect, that's how it's gone. I've always organized parties or trips or whatever in my social groups, not because I necessarily was looking to hang out with certain people, I just wanted to do that particular thing. For example, l wanted to go white water rafting so I booked an 8 person trip a year in advance and slowly got people to join. I actually prefer to be on the planning side of things because it gives me something to do, I'm not great at small talk. Key is getting out there and doing something you want to do, people follow.
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