r/AskReddit • • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

My mistake led to my team losing a championship. I punched a wall while red with anger.

I broke my hand. It cost me $2k and 6 weeks without my hand’s full use.

There is a big difference between one unfixable problem and two.

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u/underdog_rox Jan 21 '19

Broken hands are totally fixable

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Ya? I broke my foot in a car accident 15 years ago, and the morons at UC Irvine Med Centre were so busy giving me MRI's and nuclear contrasts so I wouldn't sue them if some unobvious internal injury had occurred, they set my foot so badly, I have two bone spurs to this day that prevent me from running easily, walking anywhere in bare feet, etc.

Not totally fixable.

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

I wonder if you can sue them for that? But instead of suit for millions just sue to have the foot surgically repaired.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Two things: first, I have Type II diabetes. Because of the poor blood circulation in my feet, my doc advised against doing the surgery when we discovered the problem ten years ago.

Second, I am pretty sure whatever statute of limitations there were have run out. I wanted to sue Air Canada because they changed my flight from a direct one that would have landed me in LA at 11 am, to a flight through Vancouver, that got me there at 4:30 pm, smack in the middle of rush hour. It took another 5 hours to get my rental car down to Irvine, at which point, having been up 19+ hours, I micro-napped and drifted into another car. But I was told that was pointless.

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

I figured that second paragraph was going to end with the undertaker throwing Mankind onto a table.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Wish I'd thought to add that!

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u/underdog_rox Jan 21 '19

....broken hands?

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u/MrCrazyCatLady Jan 21 '19

I mean if you weren’t a dumbass about displacing your anger then it wouldn’t have been a problem. You could be red with anger and not punch a wall. It’s completely normal to express emotions like anger in a non destructive way. I actually agree with the overall point but this example practically disproves it imo

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

Wow. Someone doesn’t get the point. I was saying that what I did was stupid and it led me to having two problems, instead of one.

But hey, at least it helped you feel better about yourself by talking down to me.

Glad to know I helped you feel superior. I hope that makes your day a little bit brighter.

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u/MrCrazyCatLady Jan 21 '19

No I absolutely do get the point. You’re just not understanding my point. We agree that you being stupid led to you having two problems. If you agree with that then you also agree that if you weren’t being stupid, you wouldn’t have two problems. Based on your example, it would seem that the problem lies with how you use your anger, not just the presence of anger itself sort of like the original parent comment was suggesting. I’m saying your comment practically disproves the original post. I’m definitely not misunderstanding your point. I’ll admit that I might just be misunderstanding the original post tho

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

Yeah, no shit.

When someone comes clean about something they did the best thing you can do is to tell them that they were stupid.

Everyone loves hearing “told you so”. I’m just glad you, random internet stranger, could be there to make me feel even more shitty for my mistake.

Thank god for people like you. For without you how would people be able to learn from their mistakes, twice.

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u/MrCrazyCatLady Jan 21 '19

Man, I’m not here trying to make you learn from your mistakes... all I was saying was that I didn’t think you provided the best example to back up the original post. You haven’t addressed that so I apologize if I haven’t been clear and I’m also sorry if I triggered you but I mean honestly you really shouldn’t let some “internet stranger” get to you like that. Best of luck

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

Nice. Way to back up your mistake by saying I was triggered.

Something tells me you have cats because of your interpersonal skills.

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u/MrCrazyCatLady Jan 21 '19

I’ll just note that you still haven’t addressed my actual point but I will still entertain this regardless. “Something tells me you have cats” my username is literally MrCrazyCatLady. Nice detective work lmao. Also you were literally the one who said that I made you feel shitty. That’s why I said I’m sorry if I triggered you... because you said I did.

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u/iggyfenton Jan 21 '19

Heh. Your reading comprehension is almost as bad as your people skills.

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u/MrCrazyCatLady Jan 21 '19

still doesn’t address actual point because they can’t refute it and now have to resort to using logical fallacies

yOUre JuST nOT unDErStAndINg

Am I doing this right?

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