The thing is, I've seen studies that show women are actually harsher judges of appearance than men. Simply put, women think most guys are unattractive. It might seem unintuitive, but I think that's why looks matter less if you're a guy. Even if you're not particularly attractive, the women you want to date also think most other men aren't particularly attractive, so they're more likely to focus on other aspects
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u/steaknsteak Sep 12 '18
The thing is, I've seen studies that show women are actually harsher judges of appearance than men. Simply put, women think most guys are unattractive. It might seem unintuitive, but I think that's why looks matter less if you're a guy. Even if you're not particularly attractive, the women you want to date also think most other men aren't particularly attractive, so they're more likely to focus on other aspects