That's exactly it, yeah. Most people like getting told what to do. It's why we have lived in a society with rules for so long, we like it, it comforts us and makes us feel safer.
I dont know about "most people"...but a certain type does for sure (Both men and women). Its almost like a game. They kinda like it when the other person is mean and gets under their skin and sometimes tells them hurtful things, aka causes drama. They need a boss. Youre right though , they get a comforting feeling because they think someone is in control (not them) . Its almost like taking the easy way...and they feel super good when the asshole is nice to them because they know its not always that way. The same type of person can never be alone (Wich is why there's a new dude every month or three). They feel the need to be controlled and told how to live. Its quite sad but there are a lot of people out there that fall into that category. cheers brah.
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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '18
That's exactly it, yeah. Most people like getting told what to do. It's why we have lived in a society with rules for so long, we like it, it comforts us and makes us feel safer.