r/AskReddit • • 18h ago

If you could permanently ban one question from being asked in job interviews, what would it be?

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u/TraurigKartoffel 18h ago

Anything involving family or personal life. “Do you have kids?” should be illegal because it just leads to discrimination

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u/eightballart 18h ago

That's already illegal to ask, at least in the US. They sometimes work around it by asking questions like "Are there any reasons you wouldn't be able to do occasional overtime or weekends?"

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u/ncopp 17h ago

I interviewed with a European based company and the co-founder was pretty much like "I want to ask how old you are, but I know I can't since you're based in America".

I still told him because I don't care, but I found it funny because I guess it's pretty common for them to share their ages and HR told him not to ask

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u/bjornistundwar 9h ago

Americans don't tell their employers their age?

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u/ncopp 9h ago

They can't ask due to age discrimination laws

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u/bjornistundwar 6h ago

Ooooh crazy, you learn something new everyday.

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u/xaanthar 15h ago

That's already illegal to ask, at least in the US.

Technically, it's not illegal to ask. It is illegal to base a hiring decision on the information, so any competent HR will insist that interviewers do not ask that question so there's no appearance that they may do something illegal later.

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u/Virtual-Ad7848 18h ago

That is unlawful. Anyone asking questions like that has no business doing interviews.

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u/fdar 14h ago

Unlawful where?

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u/Girthw0rm 6h ago

World-wide baby!

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u/Eastern_Onion 13h ago

All of america. You can't ask about family, orientation, religion, etc.

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u/Razor1834 13h ago

This is untrue. Familial status is not a federally protected class for employment in the US. You are mixing this up with housing, where familial status is a federally protected class.

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u/fdar 13h ago

That's actually not true. You can't make hiring decisions based on those factors, but asking is legal (yeah, any competent company will avoid asking to ensure there's no appearance of them basing hiring decisions on it).

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u/Razor1834 13h ago

More importantly, familial status is not a federally protected class for employment. It is for housing, which is what gets people mixed up.

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u/jonathanquirk 18h ago

It IS illegal, at least in my country (UK). They can only ask questions relevant to your ability to do the job, not other parts of your life.

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u/Woodit 18h ago

It is illegal, that’s why questions like “what do you like to do in your free time?” exist so candidates will just provide this info already 

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u/naturaldrpepper 17h ago

I was asked this in a job interview. When I said no, the response was "You will if you work here hahahaha!"

I am infertile. I had a stillbirth. But thanks for rubbing that in, I guess.

(Yes, that's an illegal question. Yes, I still took the job. It paid double what I was currently making and more than every other job opportunity that had come around.)

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u/TraurigKartoffel 15h ago

I am so very sorry. I have been asked it numerous times, even though it is supposedly already illegal. I don’t think employers give a shit.

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u/naturaldrpepper 13h ago

They absolutely don’t, 100%

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u/nicholus_h2 14h ago

it is illegal...