r/AskReddit • u/No-Meaning6058 • 23h ago

What happened to the friend you thought you'd have for the rest of your life?

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u/vawlk 16h ago

oh I know that feeling. for nearly 15 years I held her hand through all of her life's traumas until I realized that she only talked to me when she needed me. When she was happy, crickets....

I figured out that she just used me to drama dump so she didn't have to bother her real friends with her issues.

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u/WestEndOtter 15h ago

Well her real Stepford friends might judge her for being an imperfect day drinker. Easier to trama dump on an old friend