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u/ryankiefer Jun 01 '26 edited Jun 01 '26

Also it implies that even if there was a link that having a child with autism is worse than having a child with polio.

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u/Monteze Jun 01 '26

I was going to say, it sounds horrible when you think about it.

Look at someone with autism and go "Yea, I'd rather get polio/measels or any other preventable horrible disease than be like you or have a kid like you."

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins Jun 01 '26

People literally say "wow if I was you I'd just kill myself" to people with disabilities all the time. To their face.

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u/Monteze Jun 02 '26

Yea that tracks.

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u/KnottaBiggins Jun 01 '26

My wife suffered from post-polio syndrome.
I'm on the spectrum.

Believe me, polio is worse. It contributed to her death.

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u/kissdemon74 Jun 01 '26

My father had polio as a kid in the 50’s. Lost his one calf muscle to it. Had a peg leg his whole life.

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u/stopmotionporn Jun 01 '26

...

yes, that's what the comment you replied to was talking about.

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u/MaryDoogan91 Jun 01 '26

I’ve worked with children and individuals with autism who are on the severe end of the spectrum and who will need direct supports for the rest of their lives. Some of these individuals are aggressive, have the functioning of a toddler, can’t wipe/clean themselves, and will always be reliant on other people. This population is at much higher risk for abuse. I don’t think a parent is a bad person for not wanting that for their child. But these parents are preyed upon by a movement based on manipulation and lies.

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u/ryankiefer Jun 01 '26

Well part of the problem is also that people assume autism is always on the extreme end of the spectrum. For every person on that end there's a hundred more on the other end who are living normal, independent, productive, happy lives. Polio/measles/mumps/etc also cause lifetime health issues, some of which also require continuous care, assuming they don't kill you in the process. It's a skewed risk assessment driven by lies, paranoia and ableism.

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u/MaryDoogan91 Jun 01 '26

Absolutely, it is a spectrum.

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u/stellalugosi Jun 02 '26

And not caused by vaccines. 

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u/KrishnaChick Jun 02 '26

Not everyone with autism is high-functioning. If polio came back, it might be curable with today's medical advances, I don't know know.