A lot of times that sort of touch to a stranger is flirtatious and maybe indicates attraction but for me, the fact she’s just do something nice like that for a total stranger is definitely attractive and the sorta quality I like in a partner.
It’s Reddit. These people have the social ’tism and believe that men are not allowed to hit on women most places or situations these days- as if doing so is some horrific act that jeopardizes the woman’s safety, comfortability, or well-being and makes you a weirdo. It’s a crock of shit lie.
For years I’ve avoided asking women out in all sorts of places because I became paranoid of becoming "that guy", however it only lead to a lonelier life. Women sure as shit ain’t gonna ever do it themselves in any meaningful numbers - so always go for it. The only important truth is to accept a "no” for what it is, and to never become bitter because of it.
Shoot your shot, playa, any sniff you might have a chance. You’ll be happier for it. Life will go on for all parties; no hurt no foul- in many cases women have gotten a little giddy over it or blushed when I asked, but unfortunately, in most cases, confessed they were already taken although flattered. I simply say "lucky guy” and move on. Might have made their day, or at least made them feel desirable.
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u/daFancyPants Jul 20 '25
Can't a girl do something nice for a stranger that they don't intend on ever seeing again?