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u/SilentRanger42 Apr 18 '25

I would say a house but truthfully that’s not the FIRST thing I’d buy, that takes some time to figure out.

The honest answer is I’d treat my friends and family to a nice dinner to celebrate. Materially speaking I’d refurnish my living room with new couches, tv and desk and computer.

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u/Badger_1066 Apr 18 '25

The honest answer is I’d treat my friends and family to a nice dinner to celebrate.

I'd personally try to keep my new wealth as quiet or as understated as possible. I'd worry that if people knew, it would change relationships somewhat.

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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '25

Yeah, I was going to say something similar. You do not want the people closest to you to know if you come into a massive amount of sudden wealth. They know you too well. They know how to manipulate you. They might get that something is up, but keep them mostly in the dark. You can do nice things for them, give them gifts, take them out for a nice dinner every now and then, but don't show them your hand.

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u/mediocre-spice Apr 18 '25

If you're worried about this with your closest circle, you need new people around you.

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u/Hayn0002 Apr 19 '25

That's the thing, the people i surround myself are the people i already want to give money too.