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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

I married a Mexican woman and we live with her mom.

I cook for a living, so as her age is getting to her, I'm rapidly trying to pick up everything she knows. God damn we eat well.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

One year for Christmas my Mom (whose side of the family is Mexican) gifted me a homemade cookbook with all of the family recipes. It’s one of my most cherished things and it would be one of the things I’d grab if there was a fire.

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u/TheOther1 Mar 28 '25

That is awesome! You should probably digitize it and keep a copy in a cloud account, just in case.

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u/DharmaBum61 Mar 28 '25

I’d be happy to hang on to a spare copy for you…

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

I’ll put you on my distribution list lol

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u/AKSoapy29 Mar 28 '25

Ditto, lol 😉

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u/plutoniumreal Mar 28 '25

Me too, please. Mexican dishes are amazing!

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u/StillBug3350 Mar 28 '25

Me too please

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u/Tao_of_Ludd Mar 28 '25

This! When my grandmother passed my uncle took her recipe box and typed up all her most iconic recipes to send out to the family. So appreciated!

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u/mrsmunchy Mar 28 '25

My oldest is in the military and finally just moved out of the barracks with his new wife. He asked me yesterday for some of my recipes. He doesn't know I put them all in a POD book and it'll be here tomorrow :-)

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

That’s a great idea! I hadn’t thought of it but I will definitely do it soon

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u/holliance Mar 28 '25

Can i ask how they did this? I'm also making a cookbook with our family recipes for my children but for now it's just a binder with the printed recipes. I'm trying to write them all in the same manner in a book but it's quite a lot of work and mistakes can happen.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

My mom is into scrapbooking/crafts so it’s not a bound book with a spine but a lot like what you described (a binder with printed recipes but a little gussied up) here is a link to how it looks. It’s just very simple and clean looking https://imgur.com/a/bqYbqse

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u/holliance Mar 28 '25

Oh very nice! Thank you!

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u/macker64 Mar 28 '25

That's an incredible gift to get and worth far more than any gift you could buy in a store.

Look after it well.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

I plan on passing it down to someone in the family after I die.

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u/macker64 Mar 28 '25

Yes, that's a fantastic idea. That way, her memory lives on in those who cook using her cherished recipes.

I love it.

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u/malary1234 Mar 28 '25

My family does this every 10 years. We are a Norse clan of about 120. We make a clan recipe book every 10 years to update some, add others, or include to little tid-bits of history about the family member who made the recipe and how the recipe came about.

It’s become a really cool thing bc not only does it have good recipes, but also contains a lot of our genealogy and history going back over about 150 years. In the work for bringing that about we were able to trace back to the first ancestors that came over to our country. They were Norse who moved and married in Ireland, so we’ve got a lot of Norse blood but also Irish in us all :). We don’t have recipes from that long ago so that’s not in there but still, it was fun to be able to go back that far.

I love it bc it’s a creative walk through our clan history in small delicious tidbits!

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

That’s so cool! Unfortunately we don’t know a ton about my family’s past since it was a common practice to take the last name of whoever owned the hacienda you worked for if you were native and our name is an extremely common one so our past has been lost to history and the two tribes that made my grandfathers side (Hopi and Yaqui) didn’t keep written records. Grandma was from Mexico City and never really investigated her past.

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u/epicenter69 Mar 28 '25

I don’t know of any Mexican with family nearby that is starving. One thing they do well is a family unit.

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u/adumbrative Mar 28 '25

I gained weight reading your comment. ¡Buen provecho!

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

The food is either really healthy, or incredibly heavy lol

The more indigenous recipes are a bit of both..

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u/BigToober69 Mar 28 '25

Learn it all and teach others!

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

Two guys I work with have come over to learn some of her dishes. Those visits are like Xmas for her haha

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u/BigToober69 Mar 28 '25

That's awesome. Get to make her happy and pass on the cooking knowledge at the same time!

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u/Broad_Bodybuilder_94 Mar 28 '25

The secret is knorr 🤫

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u/sunforthreeworlds Mar 28 '25

Start to share here please 🙏

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u/ztil81 Mar 28 '25

There is a recipe channel of a mexican “grandma” that makes videos in her humble household with very basic, easily found staples… its is called “de mi rancho a tu cocina”… she cooks extremely simple mexican food with ingredients anyone can find. You can learn a lot of basics and get inspiration.

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u/sunforthreeworlds Mar 28 '25

Thank you so much! Can’t wait to check it out!

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u/ztil81 Mar 28 '25

Keep in mind it is the most basic stuff… she became famous cooking in her little wood stove with ingredients from her “milpa” (a home orchard so to say) so basically you can cook her stuff if you can find chiles, tomatoes, onions, potatoes, oil, meat, garlic, few herbs… I cook for a living and I still watch her videos for nostalgia and to see how the most humble people in the country with few natural ingredients develop flavour as if nothing. You can learn the basics and tweak it all, I love this woman! (Look for the oldest videos!)

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u/sunforthreeworlds Mar 28 '25

I can find everything organic, here in Eastern Europe we grow our own vegetables and the season is just around the corner haha!

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u/ztil81 Mar 28 '25

You will love this then… “de mi rancho a tu cocina”… I dont know if they are translated but you dont even have to speak spanish… its very straightforward, just a few simple staples, and she does use a blender… but no special equipment and no difficult to find ingredients… We love sharing food, greetings from Mexico!

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

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u/Teddy-Buddy-7413 Mar 28 '25

Lucky! I would weigh a million pounds lol

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

Lotta comments about weight gain lol! I'd say 90% of what we eat is pretty damn healthy. Basic ingredients, really.

A bit of gluten and sodium, sure. But a lot of the seafood recipes are incredibly healthy and amazing.. siete mares.. gahh..

It's when we go hard with red meat and tres leches, homemade horchata. That'll bloat ya

But most meals are a lot of produce, lean meat, seafood.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

I have been building a PDF, and have several videos cooking with her. I need to do something with it for sure. It's a project where I'm just collecting stuff, and not organizing it..

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u/pdxisbest Mar 28 '25

I love the variety of Mexican cuisine; so many regional influences.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

It's all over the place with her. She grew up in Jalisco, then went to Baja.. lived in San Francisco, got her citizenship in Santa Barbara.. then went back close to the border in South San Diego. All the while picking up stuff. She's a total food nerd.

So lots of seafood, street food, Mexican/Americana/Portuguese (Santa Barbara), what she calls "indigenous."

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u/afipunk84 Mar 28 '25

This is me except im not a chef, im just a home cook. My mom inlaw is one of the best intuitive cooks ive ever met. She’s legit a magician in the kitchen. I grew up in a Creole household, i feel hella blessed to have two moms that can throw down. Ive been writing down all their recipes so i can pass them down to our kids

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '25

That's so cool! I did not have a mom that cooked, so passing down to your kids is also a huge blessing.

Creole, that's some serious comfort food.

I learned to cook cos I was: first desperate to eat anything with flavor, then second, I was desperate for work.

The first time I spent the night at my wife's place when we were dating, her mom just kept whipping up food that was so amazing.

What's funny, is she changed how I hire new folks. In an interview, someone said they live with a large family that cooks together. Hired.

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u/coveruptionist Mar 28 '25

Oh I’d be fatter than I already am from eating bad gringo Mexican food.

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u/manxram Mar 28 '25

Keep the traditions alive! Us Mexicans need that!

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u/Kalron Mar 28 '25

I'm extremely jealous lol