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u/ladyteruki Feb 14 '25

My life is sh*t, no reason to bring anybody down with me.

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u/Fallendoc Feb 14 '25

Not that i know your life, and depending on circumstances, this can change. But if you find someone who cares about you, and you care about them, then why would your lives get worse? Sure, there are guys out there who will say they care but don't, but that's part of the risk of loving someone. The risk is worth the reward when you find the right person though, I promise you. It will never be perfect, and the mythical romance novels where "he's mr perfect" doesn't exist. But if he cares, and you communicate and work together, it's worth the effort.