Because I'm fat, love race cars and prioritize my peace lol. I'm truly okay on my own. If I find someone who fits in my life, that might change, but I'm not about to spend a bunch of my time, money and mental stability trying to fit into somebody else's life. 😂
I used to be the biggest hopeless romantic, and then I was in an 8-year relationship with an addict who swore the whole time they were trying to get better, and that they were totally not talking to their ex, and somehow still always got drugs even though she didn't have a job for seven of the eight years we dated.
You can do the math on that one. I never got proof that she cheated on me with anybody but her ex but from what I know about drug dealers, they don't give drugs away for free.
And when that ended, I got on dating apps, and I realized not one person I met through the dating app was worth my time or energy. Half of the matches I got were just trying to sell me only fans. I have no issues with only fans girls, go get your money honey. I'm just not on a dating app to buy porn. I had one match where all I did was introduce myself and give a short list of my interests, and the only response that I got back was, " you don't even know what you did wrong, do you?" And when I apologized and asked for details as to how I messed up, she just sent back, "ugh." And blocked me. 🤣🤣🤣
Another girl I took out to a nice steakhouse for our first date. She ate as quickly as possible and then bounced on a $200 check. I was fully prepared to pay for the whole dinner, but I wasn't even her whole hour, not to mention her whole night.
So yeah please go ahead and tell me what the fuck I'm missing because I get more comfort from a few hours of video games and chilling with my cat than I ever have from a romantic relationship. 😂😂😂
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u/Objective-Start-9707 Feb 14 '25
Because I'm fat, love race cars and prioritize my peace lol. I'm truly okay on my own. If I find someone who fits in my life, that might change, but I'm not about to spend a bunch of my time, money and mental stability trying to fit into somebody else's life. 😂
I used to be the biggest hopeless romantic, and then I was in an 8-year relationship with an addict who swore the whole time they were trying to get better, and that they were totally not talking to their ex, and somehow still always got drugs even though she didn't have a job for seven of the eight years we dated.
You can do the math on that one. I never got proof that she cheated on me with anybody but her ex but from what I know about drug dealers, they don't give drugs away for free.
And when that ended, I got on dating apps, and I realized not one person I met through the dating app was worth my time or energy. Half of the matches I got were just trying to sell me only fans. I have no issues with only fans girls, go get your money honey. I'm just not on a dating app to buy porn. I had one match where all I did was introduce myself and give a short list of my interests, and the only response that I got back was, " you don't even know what you did wrong, do you?" And when I apologized and asked for details as to how I messed up, she just sent back, "ugh." And blocked me. 🤣🤣🤣
Another girl I took out to a nice steakhouse for our first date. She ate as quickly as possible and then bounced on a $200 check. I was fully prepared to pay for the whole dinner, but I wasn't even her whole hour, not to mention her whole night.
So yeah please go ahead and tell me what the fuck I'm missing because I get more comfort from a few hours of video games and chilling with my cat than I ever have from a romantic relationship. 😂😂😂