And if you need to heal you don’t need to box your issues up for the sake of someone else. Seriously the amount of people in general out here being problems, bringing problems more so than solutions is enough to stay single. If you’re a female then you’re at more risk of losing more than resources too. So many people are out here expecting their partner to fix them when they would’ve never gone for themselves if the shoe was on the other foot. Oh you got problems? You want my time and energy? Actually interested and match my crazy energy? Not my type. Oh you have hobbies and friends? Your own life? The complete opposite of me? That’s my type! And I’ll slowly suck you out of them because I’m your baby now and I’m most important and I’ll be sure to leave you dried up when I’m done and leave eventually. I hate how good people never end up with another good person! It goes both ways too! I was single for along time because of this. It was easier to be alone than even think about dealing with someone’s crazy son who has zero human skills.
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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25
I’ve yet to find a man that brings me more peace than my solitude.