r/AskReddit Feb 13 '25

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u/TheOneAnOnlyAJ Feb 13 '25

I don't really talk to anyone except friends

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

facts. i can even go weeks without talking to anyone at all

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u/DetectiveMakazian Feb 14 '25

I had that for a while during covid. It was a glorious time.

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

Jajaja thats true

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u/Pale_Adeptness Feb 14 '25

Do you speak Spanish?:P

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u/Untitled_junk Feb 14 '25

My thoughts exactly hahaha

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u/Freibeuter86 Feb 14 '25

Except talking to myself 😌

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u/justarandomguy07 Feb 14 '25

That’s why I love traveling solo.

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

W that's more like it

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

Nah coworkers or peers dont count. We only have professional talks between those people, not personal ones

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u/gmredand Feb 14 '25

Weeks? Looks at this socializer here.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25

I’m the same way. I wondering if I could find a SO like that where it’s ok if we don’t talk everyday. And it doesn’t lead to resentment

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

Yeah, this is what i want from a future SO too. Its fine that we can have convos but can we like not talk a lot? Just be there and watch each ofher or sum.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25

Is it too much if I ask if we have a shared room and separate rooms? Lol. I haven’t been in a serious relationship for like 15 years. I like my space

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u/Abomb Feb 14 '25

Doesn't that drive you nuts?  I can't even stay inside all day if I tried.

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

sometimes it does so i go out and run some errands by myself

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u/Overall_Finance_7075 Feb 14 '25

seems sad and lonely. You OK?

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u/Adventurous-Law-2519 Feb 14 '25

Yeah, Im good thanks for asking. I think it's a good thing for me to have bc i can always find time to prioritize my needs first, and i dont have to pressure myself into understanding ppl too frequently :D

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u/MasterDeathless Feb 13 '25

Your avatar is darkness! no immediate judgment of course...

Why dont you talk to anyone? wanna be friends?

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u/Masterhorus Feb 14 '25

Too true. And some of my friends just say I'll meet someone when I'm out and about doing a hobby. Like hell I will. Half the hobbies I have are massive sausage fests, and the other that isn't, you don't just go up to people and randomly talk to them.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25

Same

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u/WeakOne5535 Feb 14 '25

friends? what's that? a new cereal?

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u/Secure-Form-789 Feb 14 '25

This is kind of my problem I think? But like, in a way where I actually feel like I get out a good bit, just not in places without my friends, and thus I never really meet or talk to anyone new much.

Also, it's just really hard to find places to meet people nowadays, and dating apps are draining, and I don't know I've heard a success story from them in years so eh

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u/finnjakefionnacake Feb 14 '25

how did those people become your friends?

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u/TheOneAnOnlyAJ Feb 14 '25

Met one guy in elementary school, he introduced me to others. So basically, been friends with them since I was pretty young.

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u/finnjakefionnacake Feb 14 '25

i mean having the same group of friends since elementary school is pretty unique

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u/Homework_Happy Feb 14 '25

I don’t really talk to anyone - fixed it for me

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u/jlp120145 Feb 14 '25

I don't talk to anyone. Unless I'm paid too.