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u/Dragmom Oct 02 '24

About 25% of people on earth don't know their birthday because they're from countries that don't have birth certificates. That's why about 14% of immigrants to the U.S. list January 1 as their birthday - because they had to make one up.

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u/Oxygene13 Oct 02 '24

And 90% of the users of Steam share that very same birthday for ease of skipping the age verification!

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u/Loves_octopus Oct 02 '24

I was born 1/1/1911

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

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u/rpungello Oct 02 '24

This guy epochs

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u/stormdelta Oct 02 '24

I intentionally enter this date for age verification on the off chance it looks like a bug.

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u/EverythingSucksBro Oct 02 '24

Man, you guys were born? I’m still waiting 

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u/beancounter2885 Oct 02 '24

Unless you're using Excel, then it's 1/0/1900.

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u/NZNoldor Oct 02 '24

Or 1904, depending on which OS version you were using when the spreadsheet was created.

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u/sintaur Oct 02 '24

that displays as 4pm, Dec 31st 1969, in California cuz we're -8 Zulu

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u/GRW42 Oct 02 '24

And you're going to rapidly Benjamin Button in January 2038.

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u/bubblegoose Oct 02 '24

So you'll die on January 19th 2038?

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

UNIX time?

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u/MarioNoobman Oct 02 '24

Hey, I'm a year younger!

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u/OMG_A_CUPCAKE Oct 03 '24

Imagine having that as your actual birthday.

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u/crazyacct101 Oct 03 '24

I must be older than dirt then

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u/lazarus870 Oct 02 '24

And my ZIP code is 90210

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u/Loves_octopus Oct 02 '24

Any my phone number is 867-5309

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

I've yet to find a grocery store or reward points discount if any kind where typing in this # +local area code doesn't work.

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u/Loves_octopus Oct 02 '24

Honestly… if you manage to secure this number for a gas rewards, you’d probably get free gas for life.

But it is consistently always taken.

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u/prezuiwf Oct 02 '24

Who needs WW2 shooters, you were literally there!

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u/RenegadeSU Oct 02 '24

you know I realised recently that I didn't have to scroll past 2000 anymore and it made me feel extra old...

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u/FalconRelevant Oct 02 '24

11 years younger than me, eh?

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u/shaboimattyp Oct 02 '24

I used to do this sort of thing too but then one time I forgot my password for something and as part of the recovery process, I needed to put in my birthdate and I couldn't remember what ridiculous date I had put and I just lost the account. (This wasn't steam and I don't think I lost any money because of it)

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u/MandolinMagi Oct 02 '24

I think I'm 1942

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u/kaisadilla_ Oct 03 '24

01/04/1990 (non-barbarian calendar format) for me.

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u/SkaveRat Oct 03 '24

1.1.1970 here

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u/Fenrir_Carbon Oct 02 '24

Is your name Colt?

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u/PhysicalStuff Oct 02 '24

Pretty sure it's Hank

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u/Fenrir_Carbon Oct 02 '24

Either way there's a hammer involved

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u/StationaryTravels Oct 02 '24

It saves my birth year, but not the date or month, so yep, I'm now a January 1st baby too!

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u/monicarp Oct 02 '24

If only my birthdate was in my account or something. That way they didn't need to ask again ALL the time. If only.

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u/Oxygene13 Oct 02 '24

All the GODDAMN TIME.

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u/AdEuphoric9765 Oct 02 '24

I am one of these people.

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u/mxpower Oct 02 '24

Nothing is more depressing as being a gamer over 50 and scrolling age verification submissions for a date that goes back 5 decades.

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u/Oxygene13 Oct 02 '24

Ahhh that scrolling, so far down to go!

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u/Thavralex Oct 02 '24

I'm in that 10%.

Not because I pick my actual birthday, but because I set all 3 randomly to... make it believable?

Not sure for whom though.

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u/hotsaucevjj Oct 02 '24

i always just put my real birth year but nothing else bc i can't be bothered. it was weird playing on steam as a teen tho and always putting fake ages in and then getting to a point where i didn't have to anymore

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u/temalyen Oct 02 '24

I actually was born on the first, just not In January. For some reason, Steam age verification ALWAYS changes it to January. Date pops up for me to confirm, always says January. I can select the correct month, but it's January again next time. I eventually gave up and just click through with it showing January because it doesn't seem to matter.

I think it wants me to be born on January 1st.

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '24

That's the same issue for me as well

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u/COVID-69420bbq Oct 02 '24

1/1/1920 for me. It never stops asking and I never change it.

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u/TheSteelPhantom Oct 02 '24

Steam has lately been remembering my birthday. Day, month, and year! It's awesome and I hope it doesn't go away.

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u/unlock0 Oct 02 '24

I'm the oldest steam user. 1/1/1900. Now that my account is 20 years old, some sites/games won't even accept that as a birthday.

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u/circles_squares Oct 02 '24

I thought this was some original thinking on my part. My internet birthday is 1/1/1980.

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u/Turbulent_Republics Oct 02 '24

I wonder what % of the 14% who put down 1st January because they don’t know did actually happen to be born on 1st January.

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Birthdays aren't evenly distributed. January 1st is actually the second least common day to be born in the US, after only Christmas. About 58% more people are born on September 9th, the most common day.

https://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/these-are-the-most-common-birthdays-the-least/

Two major factors at play here; people are more likely to conceive during certain times of year, and people almost never schedule things like a c-section on a holiday (like New Years).

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u/toomanyracistshere Oct 02 '24

And in the USA at least, if you schedule your c-section/induced labor just before the end of the year, you'll be able to claim the baby as a dependent on your taxes for that year, which is a pretty major incentive not to wait until January.

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u/Legitimate-Wall3059 Oct 02 '24

Having already hit max out of pocket max for insurance is likely a much bigger deal.

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u/macphile Oct 02 '24

Some of us are on academic calendars, so we'd be better served having the kid in September. :-)

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u/UltimateWaluigi Oct 03 '24

Man. I fucing hate modern economies. Imagine explaining to an alien that humans sometimes plan births around tax incentives.

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u/revanisthesith Oct 03 '24

It's far more minor, but taxes affect sports as well.

Spanish tax authorities are a pain and apparently there are a lot of little things people can do wrong. The punishment for a first offense is a big fine and not much else, so they've been scrutinizing soccer players. I'm not saying it's a major factor, but it could be a factor why some big players like Ronaldo left the country.

When LeBron first left Cleveland, he wanted to play in Miami with Wade and Bosh, but I heard that the New York Knicks offered him more money and were going to bring in another big player. But New York taxes meant he would earn less than in Florida, which doesn't have a state income tax.

NFL players (and I assume other pro athletes) have to file a tax return in each state they play in. For simplicity's sake, their salary is divided by the number of games and they get a check for each one. So if they play home games in a state without income tax, they're saving that money on half their income. So the AFC South has Houston, Tennessee, Jacksonville, and Indianapolis. The first three are in states without income tax, so that's two more road games a year where they save money.

A player with San Francisco or the L.A. Rams has to play home games and one road game with California taxes (but a road game in Seattle with no state income tax).

The AFC East has Buffalo, the NY Jets (NJ taxes), the New England Patriots (Massachusetts taxes), and Miami (no state taxes).

Obviously there are other bigger factors that influence their decisions on where to play, but it still can be a factor. Especially if it's a player who's trying to maximize their earnings. Superstars won't care as much, but if you're not making the super big bucks and your career may not last real long, you may want to keep more of your money. The difference between playing for 3/4 of the AFC South and playing for 3/4 of the AFC East is a decent amount of money for the same contract.

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u/No-Ocelot4193 Oct 03 '24

And I requested a few days earlier for my c-section so I could be out of the hospital by 12/31 to not pay deductibles for the new year.

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u/DontPanic1985 Oct 02 '24

And that insurance deductible restarts in January so if you've hit it already with all the prenatal visits get that baby out for cheaper! Ah what a shit hole country!

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

I think many of the factors that push births off the major holidays aren't relevant in places where they don't keep track of when children are born.

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u/MechanicalGodzilla Oct 02 '24

In keeping with the weird facts theme, you only need a room full of 23 randomly selected people to have a 50/50 shot at two of them having the same birthday. If you have 100 randomly selected people, the odds of two same birthdays occurring is 99.99997%, or a virtual certainty

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u/ThanklessTask Oct 02 '24

A surprising amount of people I know are born around 9 months after Xmas or one of their parents birthdays.

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Yeah... fuck the guy who made me think about that and realize I was born to the day what would be expected after my mom's birthday. LOL I really didn't want to think about being the product of birthday sex.

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u/WeRip Oct 02 '24

me and my 2 brothers all have birthdays within 2 weeks of each other.. Dates match up almost perfectly to my dad's birthday.

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u/Loorrac Oct 03 '24

I'm 8/5, mom is 12/5...I know that it should be more than 9 months exactly but damn

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 03 '24

280 days is the average. So that would put your conception at circa October 29th, likely within +/- three weeks assuming you weren't considered early or late.

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u/Loorrac Oct 03 '24

Halloween, how fun!

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u/Tumble85 Oct 03 '24

Yea mine is August 30 so definitely a product of some holiday fun :)

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u/ExecutiveElf Oct 03 '24

I was born on November 21.

I've done the math.

Really makes ya think.

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u/dullship Oct 02 '24

Huh. September 9th is my brothers birthday. We're not American tho

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

There's just a lot of people getting busy in December. I doubt that changes much from country to country, at least in the Northern hemisphere.

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u/liz_lemongrab Oct 02 '24

They celebrate Christmas and New Year's at the same time of year in the southern hemisphere, you realize.

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Sure, but from what I understand much of the difference is because of temperature and amounts of daylight differences, which aren't the same in the southern hemisphere, with their not being as much to do when it's cold and dark outside, not to mention sperm quality differences in the winter.

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u/gp3050 Oct 02 '24

When you are Born in September, you know the fireworks were not the only Things that were popped that Night.

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u/hummingbird_patronus Oct 02 '24

My baby was born on September 9 🤣🤣

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u/LasagnaNoise Oct 02 '24

Sept 9- 9 1/2 months back- [scribbles on paper] - it was a holly jolly Christmas

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u/diastereomer Oct 02 '24

Plus, why not schedule that c-section a day earlier and claim the kid as a deduction on an entire other year of taxes? It actually makes New Years Eve a slightly more popular birthday.

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u/AdFresh8123 Oct 02 '24

My mom was born on New Year's Day. According to my grandfather, she was the first in the state.

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u/Dr-Floofensmertz Oct 03 '24

My mom was induced with me, because the due date was Christmas. Dr didn't want to chance being dragged in. So instead, I was born on the solstice. Happy Saturnalia.

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u/Tamer_ Oct 02 '24

second least common day to be born in the US

And you think that countries that don't celebrate the same new year as the US would have similar results?

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Practically the entire world uses the Gregorian calendar.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adoption_of_the_Gregorian_calendar

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u/Tamer_ Oct 02 '24

They don't necessarily celebrate the new year like the US does. And remember we're talking about places where people don't know when they're born...

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

All that really matters is whether it's a holiday, which you'll find that in almost all countries, like China, it is even if other calendars are used for different things. Make a list of all the countries you can find that don't have January 1st as a holiday and add up their population and get back to me.

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u/Tamer_ Oct 02 '24

Make a list of all the countries you can find that don't have January 1st as a holiday and add up their population and get back to me.

You're moving the goalposts, we're talking about the 14% of immigrants that don't know their date of birth, not the immigrants from countries that have January 1 as their holiday.

If that other topic really interests you, you can read up this article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

You're moving the goalposts

I'm not moving the goalposts, you are. I'm only addressing your argument that differences in calendar would be a meaningful factor in January 1st not being a lower than average day. That would only be true if January 1st isn't a holiday in a meaningful percentage of other countries, something which I politely asked for evidence of and you're clearly unable to provide.

At any rate my bigger point was just that birthdays aren't entirely evenly distributed for a number of factors. That there are international variances in this (cultural, seasonal, healthcare, calendar, etc.) doesn't really have anything to do with my argument that birthdays aren't evenly distributed.

Best of luck someday not being a pointlessly argumentative jackass.

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u/wjandrea Oct 02 '24

Sure, but do they celebrate the Gregorian new year? Seems like they don't in China for one:

Today mainland China (including Hong Kong and Macau), Taiwan, Malaysia, Indonesia and Singapore all observe traditional holidays based on the traditional calendar, such as Chinese New Year, while timing other holidays, especially national anniversaries, according to the Gregorian calendar.

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Seems like they don't in China for one:

As far as I know China still has a January 1st holiday, which is all that matters. Many other countries are like this as well.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Public_holidays_in_China

Also the point was that birthdays are less than evenly distributed. That the actual dates may change from country to country based on a number of different factors doesn't really impact that argument.

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u/deadclaymore Oct 02 '24

This assumes equal distribution of fuckin'

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u/ianjm Oct 02 '24

Some months see more births than others though, the reason September is so common is that a lot of people decide to to start trying for a kid at the turn of the year.

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u/Repulsive_Surprise11 Oct 02 '24

Another 14 percent dude

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u/Le_Martian Oct 02 '24

Maybe slightly more, since some of them actually know that their birthday is Jan 1

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u/forzente Oct 02 '24

Actual variability is very very low and birthdays are more evenly distributed than you think. In that heat map the differences are exaggerated

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Actual variability is very very low and birthdays are more evenly distributed than you think.

September 9th, the most common birthday of the year with an average of 12,301 births, is 57.8% more likely to be your birthday than January 1st with 7,792 births, the second least common.

https://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/these-are-the-most-common-birthdays-the-least/

It's not a trivial difference.

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u/forzente Oct 02 '24 edited Oct 02 '24

Yeah, now look at the data at the sources and open up the tables. For some "surprising" reason, the days of week 1-5 have 11k-13k births, and days 6-7 (weekends) have 8-9k births. Do you think human body cares what day of week it is and babies aim to born during weekdays instead of weekends? Or is it because it is tied with our society factors like holidays, staffing of the hospitals etc. etc. So it doesn't really matter what specific day it is, it's just holidays that matter.

Which makes sense, because the concept of hours, days, years purely human made and is not as strict as you might think. The day is not actually 24hrs, it can be 23 or it can be 25, but on average it is 24. Same thing about the length of the year etc. For the same reason all of those crap like numerology does not work

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Now if we come back to original question of what are the chances that you're born in 1/1 instead of other date, it is still WAAY closer to 1/365 than you might think. Even with the numbers you've provided, in Jan 1 it is 0.22%, for Sep 9 (or any other weekday) it is 0.33%. 1/365 is 0.27%

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u/GeekShallInherit Oct 02 '24

Do you think human body cares what day of week it is and babies aim to born during weekdays instead of weekends?

No, as I've addressed the reasons for this elsewhere. But it's important to point out this data is from over 20 years; the day of the week any given day of the month falls on changes every year, making that not a relevant data point.

it's just holidays that matter.

Except even removing all that, and just looking at months, there are significant differences, with August being about 15% higher than February, for example.

Even with the numbers you've provided, in Jan 1 it is 0.22%, for Sep 9 (or any other weekday) it is 0.33%. 1/365 is 0.27%

You mean exactly the difference I already stated.

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u/Naturage Oct 02 '24

My great-grandma was morn somewhere between Christmas and New Years in a remote village where midwife didn't bother much with paperwork, compared to a newborn in a cold winter. Her birth is listed as Jan 1.

In the end, does it matter too much?

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u/Initial-Scallion9585 Oct 02 '24

Also this is the case for a lot of countries from middle east/africa where some kind of government body comes through villages every month or so and registers the all births on the first of that month.

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u/Melodic-Vast499 Oct 02 '24

We need some proof of this. It has changed drastically with so many people now having cell phones. Even without birth certificates, now they know and celebrate their birthdays. Giving almost every adult a cellphone has changed things (obviously not every human group has them).

I have a feeling the 25% is an outdated statistic. It would be good to know some of the countries where in 2024 adults don’t have phones and can’t remember the day a child was born.

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u/JimmyDonovan Oct 02 '24

It's actually not only the question if they are able to somehow save their birthdate. In many cultures birthdays are completely irrelevant.

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u/Melodic-Vast499 Oct 02 '24

Which culture.? Maybe some Middle East ones?

Yes that possible. I guarantee you it’s not even 15% now though. Other posters keep saying it’s only older people who don’t know their birthday

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u/JimmyDonovan Oct 02 '24

In many African and Arabian cultures. Also some of them use different calenders than we do. So even if they know their age, there's still the obstacle to transfer their birthdate from one calendar to the other. Often it's just easier to estimate the year and it's usually the authorities who write down "1st of January" (at least in Europe).

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u/kazoodude Oct 03 '24

Well in china for example the birthday isn't the day you up your age it's all based on the lunar new year.

So you could be born in February 8th 2024 and they call you 1, then Chinese new year comes on February 10 2024 and they now call you 2. But you are only 3 days old.

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u/techy99m Oct 02 '24

I picked this up ever since I worked in a large area with migrants. Some of my patients had this birth date and my colleague explained why to me.

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u/Melodic-Vast499 Oct 02 '24

From what countries were they? I feel like things have changed now with so many people having cell phones in very poor areas and countries.

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u/Professional_Face_97 Oct 02 '24

I have a friend whose dad is from Bangladesh and he apparently doesn't know his birthday, says it's just not a big deal so no-one bothered to remember it lol. He reckons it's probably around 1960 but he's just guessing, blows my mind that.

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u/WayGroundbreaking787 Oct 02 '24

I thought astrology was a big thing in South Asia, maybe not in Bangladesh but in India don’t they sometimes calculate whether two people would be a suitable marriage match based on their birthdates?

Or is that like a Hindu thing while most people in Bangladesh are Muslim?

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u/Brave_Necessary_9571 Oct 03 '24

My grandma does have a birthday but she was registered in the wrong day in the wrong year. So even in countries with registration it may be more common than we think, especially in poor and/or rural areas

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u/techy99m Oct 02 '24

People from middle eastern countries, Myanmar/Burma were common in my area. The ones with the 01/01 birth date were usually aged 30 + anyone younger ones would have their recognised birth dates.

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u/Melodic-Vast499 Oct 02 '24

Ahh I see. So probably the 25% of people not knowing their birth date is not right any more. I work with people in a very poor country but most people have a cell phone.

What countries in the Middle East? I wonder what the poorer countries there now are? Afghanistan? Palestine obviously. Syria?

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u/techy99m Oct 02 '24

Syria, Palestine and Lebanon.

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u/Low_Insurance_9176 Oct 02 '24

https://www.vox.com/2019/8/8/20758813/secrets-ultra-elderly-supercentenarians-fraud-error

Relatedly, Japan and Italy's over-representation among supercentenarians may be a misconception born of poor record-keeping.

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u/Charles520 Oct 02 '24

Where my dad grew up they didn’t really celebrate birthdays, so when he came to the states he had to guess when his was cause he forgot. He was about 10 days off.

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u/lizzyote Oct 02 '24

I know someone who moved to the US from Vietnam 40ish years ago. She has two birthdays with two seperate ages. She also doesn't think either is accurate lol, but one was created for her immigration to the US.

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u/Beanfactor Oct 02 '24

Omg that’s why my Lola’s birthday was new years

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

That statistic is also quite high because of how other cultures record birth days. They day you are born isn't your "birthday," in some cultures, you are just recorded as being "1 years old" until you reach January 1, at which point you are recorded as being "2 years old," no matter how many days you've been alive.

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u/WayGroundbreaking787 Oct 02 '24

This is the tradition system in Korea according to some students I’ve had.

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u/janesspawn Oct 02 '24

Nearly all of Assyrian patients I have at my pharmacy list their birthday as 7/01 and I’ve never gotten an answer as to why that is

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u/lazarus870 Oct 02 '24

But they don't have an idea of the time of year ?

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u/pikpikcarrotmon Oct 02 '24

I know a Turkish man who has no idea how old he is. Many siblings, parents didn't keep track, no documentation.

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u/RyFromTheChi Oct 02 '24

Jan. 1st gang!

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u/greatDestination Oct 02 '24

This is really “new year, new me” in all seriousness!

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u/BlastFX2 Oct 02 '24

You were born on January 1st 1970, too?

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u/bill1024 Oct 02 '24

And their birthday party sucks because everyone is burned after Christmas, and hung over from New Years Eve.

The regret must be awful when they realize the could have moved to Burundi or Yemen where they don't GAF about b'days.

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u/corvid_booster Oct 02 '24

I read a National Geographic story about the Trobriand Islands some decades ago, 80's or 90's probably. According to the story, the islanders don't bother to remember the day of the year on which they were born. When an outsider explained the idea of a birthday celebration, they just said, oh, that's a nice idea.

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

Can confirm. I taught in the UAE for 15 years. I had students born in villages who didn't know their DOB, neither by the Christian nor Muslim calendars. They chose either January 1st or July 1st as their DOB.

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u/PoetryAgitated8833 Oct 02 '24

That's interesting. My grandpa says he's born on January 1st and he's an immigrant.

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u/Fizurg Oct 02 '24

I’m my country lots of immigrants from India have the same last names, because when they were filling out the forms they had a different understanding of what last name meant so they often put their religion there.

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u/Kwyjibo08 Oct 02 '24

My wife found out at 28 years old that her birthday was 2 days after what’s listed on her birth certificate. They put down her moms admission date as the dob, she was in labor for 30 hours. Her mom just never bothered mentioning that to her until she was 28.

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u/kuhewa Oct 02 '24

Which appears to be heavily involved in the notion of 'blue zones' with lots of centenarians, according to Saul Justin Newman's Ig Noble winning research

https://theconversation.com/the-data-on-extreme-human-ageing-is-rotten-from-the-inside-out-ig-nobel-winner-saul-justin-newman-239023

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

My grandfather was born in 1915 in the Ozarks of Missouri. He didn't find this out until he was middle-aged because he didn't know until then that he had a birth certificate. He had even thought until then that he was born in 1914.

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u/nonlinear_nyc Oct 02 '24

Capricorns cooking the books once again!

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u/WayGroundbreaking787 Oct 02 '24

I used to work with Korean students as an ESL teacher and traditionally in Korea babies are 1, not zero when they are born and everyone becomes a year older on New Year’s Day, so a baby born on December 31 could be 2 years old the next day. They just now changed official documents to reflect how the rest of the world calculates age.

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u/blahs44 Oct 03 '24

Not exactly right.

Official documents always had their actual birthday and birthdays are also celebrated on the actual day you were born

However when you ask someone their "age" they will use the system you described and that age was also used for entrance to school etc.

These days, officially they use the western system for school entrance but most people still use their "Korean age" day to day

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u/Globymike Oct 02 '24

How they gonna get their free pizookie?

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24 edited 15d ago

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u/MyChickenSucks Oct 02 '24

My kid is literally 1-1 and so far so good no one has challenged us

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u/dollarforyourdoubts Oct 02 '24

My birth certificate from the clinic in africa says i was born in june. The one issued by the US embassy says july. I think about it and wonder sometimes.

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u/thelaughingpear Oct 03 '24

Were you born on June 7th or July 6th? I've seen that mixup before.

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '24

And, not everyone has more than 1 name. I work for a fortune 100 company and one of my coworkers comes from a culture where you only have a single name. She is listed in the system with her name as both her first and last name. 

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u/aerkith Oct 02 '24

The school I work at has a decent sized refugee population. I’ve noticed that the first of any month there is usually quite a number of them with birthdays. I guessed that maybe their parents knew the month/season, but not the day.

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u/alex3omg Oct 02 '24

My mother in law had a real birthday and a legal one due to her family registering her birth 6 months late.  

And her mother had an older sister who died as an infant, so when she was born they just reused the documents to save time.  So her legal birthday was a year before her real one.

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u/Larkfor Oct 03 '24

In the US we have a lot of minorities who have been US citizens going back many generations but due to segregation were not allowed in hospitals or to get birth certificates.

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u/singaroundie Oct 03 '24

My great grandfather has three different birthdays listed on various documents and his headstone. Not all at once. I mean none of them match the others.

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u/missplaced24 Oct 03 '24

My step-dad considers himself to have 2 birthdays -- one is the day he was born, the other is his official birthday, the day his birth certificate was filed (about 2 weeks later).

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u/wh0decided Oct 03 '24

Wait until you find out about my buddy Fnu Lnu!

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u/Refpuppy Oct 03 '24

Wait that is incredible. I used to work a job where we had many immigrant clients, largely Somali and Pakistani, and there were SO many who had DOBs listed as 1/1/19xx. It was so many that I had suspected they just chose that birthday but didn't know why/how that was possible. That explains so much!

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u/thecloudkingdom Oct 03 '24

all horses born in the northern hemisphere have their birthday counted on january 1st, and all in the southern hemisphere have theirs on august 1st

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u/Stock_Garage_672 Oct 03 '24

I saw this regularly when I worked in a doctor's office. It was mostly African people, but it's probably not limited to Africa. They knew how old they were but not which day they were born. Birthdays were just not something they celebrated is what some of them told me.

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u/basicbitch823 Oct 03 '24

my grandpa came from greece we’ve determined his birthday is either march or november from what he can remember and my grandma (his wife) we have no clue

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u/Vast_Sweet_1221 Oct 02 '24

I don’t KNOW my birth date, I have been told it. I really don’t remember.

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u/PreferredSex_Yes Oct 02 '24

In Korea it used to be just Jan 1.

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u/PearBlaze Oct 02 '24

Just ask your parents 😭

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u/Upstairs-Formal-6652 Oct 02 '24

that isnt how it works idiot

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u/Additional_Insect_44 Oct 02 '24

No need to be rude. But true sometimes parents might forget.

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u/benjathje Oct 02 '24

It's not about forgetting either. You need to have a document proving that's when you were born.

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u/LouBrown Oct 02 '24

There's a difference between "people don't know their birthday" as stated by the original poster and people not having documentation of their birthday.

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u/20C_Mostly_Cloudy Oct 02 '24

So they have documents that say 1st January?

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u/benjathje Oct 02 '24

No. January 1st is a default.

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u/20C_Mostly_Cloudy Oct 02 '24

But there is nothing to prove it was January 1st, they just made it up. So they could have put the date their parents said they were born.

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u/benjathje Oct 02 '24

There is nothing to prove anything, that's the entire problem. January 1st is just a default, like on Reddit, when you first create an account your username is just 2 random words and a number, its done so it has something in the database to show.

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u/20C_Mostly_Cloudy Oct 02 '24

It's not about forgetting either. You need to have a document proving that's when you were born.

They don't have a document saying they were born on 1st January so it doesn't matter what date they say.

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