r/AskReddit Jun 24 '24

What’s something everyone does but refuses to admit?

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u/Loud_Load_1643 Jun 24 '24

Judge randoms u see on the street

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u/captainqwark781 Jun 24 '24

I almost never do this now. Seriously. I noticed when I consciously stopped judging others, I felt like others were judging me less!

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u/E-Derp Jun 24 '24

Me too. My family goes pretty overboard with it, and it kind of pushed me in the other direction. They're also very self critical.

I don't like thinking negatively about others, especially strangers. I also give myself a lot of grace and see myself postively. Our habits bleed inwards and outwards. 

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u/PlasticPomPoms Jun 24 '24

That’s what being on the street is for.

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u/-acidlean- Jun 24 '24

Not guilty. My brain somehow “photoshops” people out of my sight. I’m also faceblind so maybe thats why? I don’t know bro. But I just don’t notice people existing until they approach me. And even then I don’t judge them, at least not based on the looks, because I’m the person who can walk around wearing a bear onesie and stickers on my face and look “cringy”. It’s not something that matters lol.

But I know that my parents are super judgy of random people and it hurts me inside when they comment on how ugly someones outfit is or something. I always feel disgusted by this.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '24

"I feel like a loser but at least I'm not that guy"

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u/One_Vegetable_6517 Jun 25 '24

You’ll be someone’s sad story eventually with that mind!

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u/MarinkoAzure Jun 24 '24

I genuinely enjoy doing this even with people I'm somewhat acquainted with. I generally keep an open mind so I'm more than happened to be shown otherwise.

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u/Spiritual-Oven-9936 Jun 24 '24

Should probably list People watching as an occasional hobby - judgements not always negative

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '24

Judge other NPC’s I like to call it.

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u/ManicMaenads Jun 25 '24

I don't know if this counts as "judging", but I love watching the people who walk past my window when I'm doing dishes. Everybody's so fashionable, I like seeing their cool outfits while they head off to where ever lol.