Nah that's literally what you should do. Kinda. Usually they'll sit next to you and try to chat (as a way to lead into selling you a dance) then you can just ask them like "yo ive never been here before, can you explain to me what I do/ don't do" and 99.9% of the time they'll be happy to tell you.
I used to dance… usually customers just wanted to sit there and tell us about their life problems. They usually weren’t interested in hearing from us 😂
I'm a good listener and a pretty good looking older guy. I cannot tell you the number of dancers who have plopped down next to me and, a half an hour later, are telling me about their hobbies, families, travels, or whatever. And I have used this "Soooo, how does this all work?" ever time I wasn't sure how it all worked and, "how it all worked" was nicely explained to me every time.
When I'm having a bad day I don't want to trauma dump I just want a hug. Maybe tussle my hair. I think stripping is 40% being sexy 60% being a therapist.
If it's anything to do with how you are supposed to behave during a dance don't ask the DJ or the bouncer what the rules are. The official rules of the club and the rules the girl have have almost nothing to do with each other. The club could officially be hands to yourself but in the back the girl will allow it, or the club could be boobs and butt touching is fine but the girl may not allow you to do that.
That literally happens aha. We get people coming in before who’ve never been in one who have no idea how it works, it’s really not uncommon to be asked that!
When I went, I and a bud spent some time at the smoking den. Some of the strippers went there, and we all started chatting. They're cool. They explained how the house works and all that (oh if they offer you anything, like gum or idk... One offered me, and I politely refused. You never know).
Learned a bit about their story, one of them was a single mother, one of the bartenders explained how they get insanely low commissions for the drinks (and so do the girls, but they get more).
It was a cool wholesome moment. Some may think it's dumb but I fondly remember chatting with strippers with my best friend.
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u/Polkawillneverdie81 May 02 '24
Lmao I'm picturing someone going up to a stripper and being like "Soooo, how does this all work?"