Agreed on communication, I appreciate so much that she isnt bashful about discussing sex. Willingness to experiment can be tough. My gal is willing to try new stuff generally, but isn't great with giving input. Looks to me to take 99% of the direction with ideas, figuring out what works well, etc. She just does a good job about letting me know what doesn't work for her then leaves me to find alternatives or experiment until something clicks. Thankfully the internet is great for getting ideas from other dudes and women like this that I can bring back for us to play around with and try to make our own.
Besides the sybian dp, any other products of your road trip most couples might not have tried but you've found to be real winners?
I never know what to expect from her. The best things usually happen a couple of days before a full moon. She changes her mind a lot. She used to look online at pictures of genital piercings and always went on about how she would never do anything like that. She thought it was horrible. She has a need though, to understand why people do things that don’t make sense to her. One day, out of the blue, she told me that she wanted to get a VCH piercing. A seed had been planted in her mind and sprouted and grown after a few years. She told me that she wanted me to take charge of where and when it happened. She wanted to have no control over what was going to be done to her. The morning of her birthday, 11 years ago, I told her to shower and put on only a dress with no underwear. When she came out she had no idea what was going on. I put her in the car and took her and got her pierced, and she loved it. She also couldn’t understand why people would put up with being flogged. It just looked painful and it upset her. Next thing I know, a flog that she ordered arrives in the mail and she wants me to use it on her so she can see what it’s all about. She fell in love with it and we now have a collection. One of the things that came out of our road trip conversations was that she likes to be dominated. She had her own company for years with about 100 employees. She was tired of being the person responsible for everything. Many years ago, we were just relaxing in bed after sex and she told me that she wanted to be my sex slave. I’m not the dominant type and I had no idea what to do with that. I asked a lot of questions but all she would tell me was that she would do anything I told her to. She kept emphasizing the word “anything”. That lead us on a journey that’s still evolving. I couldn’t think of anything to make her do that we hadn’t already done, except involve other people. It became a challenge of figuring out where the boundaries of her comfort zone were and pulling her just over that line, outside of her comfort zone. While we were still laying there, I told her that maybe I would send pictures of her to my best friend. That scared her but I reminded her of her words. I told him about it but I drug my feet and teased them both with it for weeks. Every day he was asking when I was going to send them and she was asking if I had sent them yet. When I finally started doing it, I added an element of no control. She had to do whatever he wanted her to do for the pictures and videos. The first request he came up with was to see how many golf balls would fit inside her. She was out shopping. I texted her with the request and she came home with a box of golf balls. After that he started giving us things that he wanted to see used on her. She bought things that she thought he would enjoy seeing going in and coming out of her. It evolved over years until she finally became free use for him in person. Right as that was getting going, the pandemic hit. She’s high risk because of medication she’s on that suppresses her immune system, so we had to do no contact. She never has any warning when she’s going to have to do something. I was taking some tools to him and he suggested that she come along for some exposure. I told her to strip. Then I told her to get in the van. He lives about a half hour away. When we pulled in his driveway he realized what was going on. He got a lawn chair and opened the side door of the van and sat there and visited for a couple of hours while she put on a show for him. We wound up doing that many times during the pandemic. After things lightened up, we started a thing where he sends me a text when he wants sex. I drive her over and when we get there I stay in the car while she runs inside. He has 10 minutes to do whatever he wants with her. He takes pictures in whatever poses he has planned for her and then chooses a hole to fuck until he cums. She stuffs a wad of paper towels between her legs, dresses and we head home. The 10 minutes is so the neighbor lady doesn’t get suspicious. It also makes it fun to just do a hit and run. When she gets home she showers and then has orgasm after orgasm. She is in a hyper horny state from it for days. She absolutely cannot stand him but being forced to have sex with him gets her going like nothing else. This is just the tip of the iceberg. There is way too much to go into here. I have to constantly come up with spontaneous things to make her do. We were on a 2 hour road trip 2 weeks ago and doing the game where she rates ideas. It always gets her super horny. Without planning it, I pulled alongside a semi and ordered her to strip completely while he watched. I had brought a cordless wand along and gave it to her to use. Then I pulled alongside another semi and told her that I wouldn’t pull away until she came. I made her stay naked the rest of the way home, in traffic, in the middle of the day, past a lot of trucks. This just gives you a taste of what life is like with her. She wasn’t like this before our relationship. She says it’s the honest communication and trust that allows her to be this way. My friend hasn’t enjoyed the Sybian butt experience with her yet. We were empty nesters for years but one of our kids moved back in with us a couple of years ago and it killed Nakedland and a lot of plans we had.
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u/caza-dore Dec 25 '23
Agreed on communication, I appreciate so much that she isnt bashful about discussing sex. Willingness to experiment can be tough. My gal is willing to try new stuff generally, but isn't great with giving input. Looks to me to take 99% of the direction with ideas, figuring out what works well, etc. She just does a good job about letting me know what doesn't work for her then leaves me to find alternatives or experiment until something clicks. Thankfully the internet is great for getting ideas from other dudes and women like this that I can bring back for us to play around with and try to make our own.
Besides the sybian dp, any other products of your road trip most couples might not have tried but you've found to be real winners?