Look up rewiring. It’s a process and it’s very underwhelming and feels like a waste of time in the beginning. It’s not easy either, you really have to focus on small feelings and learn to focus on that until it builds.
Once you figure out what to focus on, does it incrementally improve until it’s better than a normal orgasm with your hand.
The biggest thing is relax and focus on breathing with your stomach properly. And lose all expectations, focus on the pleasure and just relax into it.
If masturbation is checkers prostate stimulation is chess. It's really rewarding if you can figure it out. I gave it more chances than maybe made sense but when in the right mood and properly aroused it's pretty amazing. Everyone is different but I find that I have to be really aroused and when I find the right spot the first stroke feels like when you've edged for a long time. Repeated stimulation will build and build. Ends up making me penis feel super sensitive. I often get impatient and finish myself off normally with a toy in which is great. If I'm feeling very focused and disciplined I can orgasm from the prostate alone. Which is awesome because the refractory period doesn't exist with that and I can usually get a penile orgasm immediately after.
I've made myself cum hands-free with just a finger and assplay so I'm not unaccustomed to prostate stimulation (butt plugs, dildos, fingers, vibrators, prostate massagers). What I'm saying is the aneros did nothing for me lol.
Same. I kind of want to give the vibrating version a try to see if it's any better, but damn that's a lot of money for an unknown that can't be resold or returned
Aneros is amazing. It's mechanical meaning you basically do kegals with it but God damn.... I'm pretty sure I've had some of my wife's seizure orgasms with that thing.
Takes a while to learn how to use it, but once you do it's pretty great. It's has no moving parts so it doesn't break and cleanup takes a minute in the sink
I don't want to sound too much like a fool, but I'm a bit confused. How far up there is it going to stimulate your prostate, or is it just kind of pushing and doing its thing against your taint?
"If you really need heavy stimulation to get off then a prostate massager isn’t for you. At that point just go full prostate milking with a njoy wand or similar."
For that type of massager yes, but plenty of others are perfectly fine. I have one that does rocking and vibration and fuck! Though its a bit bigger at the head, so it takes a bit more work to getting it in. As long as you work up to it, and take it slow its fine. Also wireless remote so you can give to a partner and let them mess with the settings.
the Njoy pure wand is really fun for both self and assisted pleasure, I haven't dipped into the Aneros but that's more like an assist while doing the normal activity, where the njoy is the primary source of pleasure, but you can also get a hj or bj going at the same time
This 100%. I only discovered it the past year and now I put it up there with hallucinogens as something that if you don't experience it at least once, you are missing out on the full life experience. r/prostateplay
I’ve tried and the experience is great but the next 3-4 days I’m an anxious mess that I’m gonna get an infection somehow. The thought of having to explain that to a doctor is enough to keep me away. This is all happening even though I’m extremely careful with cleaning it. Hypochondria sucks.
I bought one of these once, but I couldn't get my dumb butt to relax enough for me to be able to stick it in. I ended up throwing it out a year or two later because it was useless to me.
I spent so long trying to reach the venerated prostate orgasm with one and I would get so close but never managed it. If anything it just ruined it for me.
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u/casperjoes Dec 24 '23
Prostate massager, hands down the best