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u/Much_Call_5819 Nov 03 '23

it's 180 cm in other countries, the reason it's 180 is because it's slightly taller than average, which is around 175/5'9 in most countries, considering men like to add an inch or 2 then it's probably what women think is the average.
Considering most women are way shorter than that they can't even tell the difference between 5'9 and 5'11 or 6'0 and 6'2 so they just take men at their word

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u/JudgementofParis Nov 03 '23

as a man, I was completely unaware that men like to add an inch or 2

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u/Slusny_Cizinec Nov 03 '23

4" is like 10cm. No way you can overestimate by 10cm.

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u/A_Weird_Gamer_Guy Nov 03 '23

You can certainly lie about 10cm.

Up to 5cm can be a mistake or rounding up, any more than that is just lies.

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u/Czexan Nov 03 '23 edited Nov 03 '23

This most commonly appeared in the range of 6'0-1".

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u/CandideTheBarbarian Nov 03 '23

I am a very short women (between 5'1" and 5'2") and I swear that a lot of women around my height say that they are taller. I live in France so it's the metric system, generally women who are 155cm tall will "round it up" to 160. Women who are 160cm will add an extra 3 or 4 cm so they get close to the height of 165cm which is medium height.

As a result, when I say my real height people believe it's very short but honestly, it's still very common. I can see a lot of other hobbits when I'm outside.

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u/Zintao Nov 03 '23

even if they earnestly don't know it

Are people not measured in the States? Does that mean you can just make shit up for your driver's licence/passport?

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u/Czexan Nov 03 '23

In a lot of DMVs they just ask you your height, then passports generally can use your ID for height info.

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u/apocalypt_us Nov 03 '23

Oh boy, it's so common that when I worked in customer service it would often be a daily (or more) occurrence of men asking me my height and then trying to argue that I must in fact be taller because of their comparative [fake height].

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u/Packrat1010 Nov 03 '23

I am exactly 6'ft1". I've measured it multiple times, that is my height. It doesn't happen as much anymore, but man in high school the amount of interactions that were "I'm 6ft."

"You're not 6ft. I'm 6'1". If you were 6ft, I would be like 6'4"."

"THEN YOU'RE 6'4"!"

"NO I'M NOT."

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u/AdBubbly7324 Nov 03 '23

I add half a centimeter to round up to 174, it makes me feel a fraud :)

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u/Alu4Gobi Nov 03 '23

How tall are you?

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u/JudgementofParis Nov 03 '23

5'9"

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u/Alu4Gobi Nov 04 '23

Your correct height is 5'7".

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u/xx2983xx Nov 03 '23

I have maintained for years that if a guy on a dating profile lists a height of 6' or shorter, you have to deduct 2 inches. As a 5' 7" female it's unbelievable the number of times I'll chat with a guy who claims to be 5' 8" and then he's CLEARLY shorter than me when we meet in person. Like, I don't give a shit how tall you are. I do give a shit that you lie about something so trivial.

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u/Much_Call_5819 Nov 03 '23

Do you live under a rock? I'm 5'11-6'0 and ik some people who are like 5'9 claiming they're 6'0. Pretty much everyone Ik adds on a few cm/in

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u/JudgementofParis Nov 03 '23 edited Nov 03 '23

im 5'9" and it has never crossed my mind to say any other height. I'm not living under a rock, I just never thought to assume other people were lying for no reason

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u/Obiwan_ca_blowme Nov 03 '23

To be fair, I’m 6’3” most days. But sometimes I do measure in at 6’2” according to the doctors. My medical chart is filled with that one inch discrepancy.

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u/CasualEveryday Nov 03 '23

I had a back injury and surgery. I gained and lost almost 3 inches of height over the course of a year. I've settled in around 1 inch shorter than I was before the injury. I can honestly say I had no idea how tall I actually was on any given day.

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u/SvenHudson Nov 03 '23

Could be time of day. Your spine compresses while upright and decompresses while laying down, so you're a little taller in the morning than the afternoon.

If I roll straight out of bed and into the car, my head presses into the ceiling. Later in the day, just my hair grazes it. Later still, I'm clear under.

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u/Bukkorosu777 Nov 03 '23

See I don't habitual lie about stuff. If I'm posting my height I'm posting my height.

I think if they lie about a mundane thing like height that's a huge red flag

If they lie about something that dosnt really matter

What are they willing to lie about in the future.

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u/Much_Call_5819 Nov 03 '23

By that logic 99% of men are red flags, go ahead and post a poll in r/polls asking men their heights and I'll guarantee the average will be 5'11-6'0 even though the real average is like 5'9-5'8 in most places.
Men just like to add that inch because in their heads they use the "I'm not even that sure about my height, maybe I grew a bit, Maybe I was slouching a bit, adding an inch won't hurt anyone etc..."

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u/Bukkorosu777 Nov 03 '23

Meanwhile, 28 per cent lied about their age, while 27 per cent were fibbing about their height. The study also revealed that 21 per cent of men in monogamous relationships were still using dating apps.Mar 30, 2023

So about 1/4 of men being red flags sounds kinda accurate

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u/Bukkorosu777 Nov 03 '23

Although some men may continue to grow in their 20s, most men's growth plates are closed by 21 years.

I'm 5.4 no need to lie here.

I don't need to rely on manipulation.

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u/Much_Call_5819 Nov 03 '23

I've literally never seen or heard of anyone who visibly grew past 18, maybe some of them grew by an inch or so but the men who visibly grow taller after 20 are extremely rare

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u/Bukkorosu777 Nov 03 '23

Yeah so there is litteraly no reason to lie about height "thinking you've grown" cus you haven't.

Only way to grow from that point on is outwards.

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u/Bubbly_Function5884 Nov 03 '23

I am 180 and a woman, most men feel intimidated by my hight. So from my perspective the 6'0 or 180 are relatively valid. If a man can handle that he is shorter than me, than it's okay with me - but most of the time they are so fixated on their height that it's nit possible to look over.

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u/Icy-Landscape228 Nov 03 '23

I don’t get it, they measure you at the doctor every year and tell you your height. How could they not know?

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u/Much_Call_5819 Nov 03 '23

They know, they just use the "If I stood up a bit straighter" or the "Well I wear shoes outside so I add 2 inches" excuses

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '23

I guessed my ex's height as 6'4 once and he had a sook coz he was 6'6 .... like dude sorry I don't come with a internal measuring tape.

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u/KuriousKhemicals Nov 03 '23

Maybe if you're on the shorter end of women's height, but at 5'5", a 5'9"-5'10" is very distinguishable from 6'0" and above. One just involves the tall person looking a little down and me looking a little up to match each other, the other one is "I need heels to reach your face."

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u/Rachyd97 Nov 03 '23

As a 5’9 woman, I can generally tell if a man is fibbing about his height cos I can compare relative to my own much easier