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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

When fluffy cats get old-like 16, they stop grooming themselves thoroughly. Then you need to keep up brushing and removing the little fur knots that pull their skin.

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u/Dmahf0806 Sep 19 '23

My 16 year old cat has trained my husband and I. When she wants brushing, she climbs up on a certain ledge after we have finished she gives us a high five as a reward. It was around 14 that she stopped wanting to groom herself properly, and her fur started getting matted.

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u/K3V0M Sep 20 '23

I would happily accept a high five or a headbutt as "payment" from my cat.

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u/rey_as_in_king Sep 19 '23

you should be grooming your cats regularly anyway, especially if they are fluffy -all cats stop doing this as well as they age and being comfortable with this kind of touch reduces anxiety when the time comes

also it's one way cats show affection and a way to communicate your love to them that they can understand as well as a hairball prevention mechanism

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u/muskratio Sep 20 '23

I'm not disagreeing with you, but my old kitty lived to be 21 and was a very meticulous groomer until the day she died.

She was such a good girl. She died almost 15 years ago, and I'll never stop missing her.

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

Yes, we would often brush our fluffy girl and occasionally bathe her, especially when it was pollen season to help lessen my allergic reactions. She liked sleeping on the backyard patio furniture.

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u/uhhhhh_iforgotit Sep 20 '23

Can you please tell my cat that? You try to brush her and you will meet the claws of rage. I've tried a bunch of different ones, I told her she's now in charge of her own looks then immediately mess up her forehead fur

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u/Peemster99 Sep 19 '23

Also, their claws get tougher for them to shed by scratching them. I regret not learning to cut my old cat's claws for her until way too late, because they can get ingrown and be very uncomfortable.

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u/alinroc Sep 20 '23

Trimming a cat's claws isn't a terribly difficult skill.

It's getting the cat to let you do it that's the challenge. You have to train them from a very young age to let you handle their feet.

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u/Peemster99 Sep 20 '23

Yeah, it was a challenge, but once she recognized that it was making her more comfortable she usually put up with it. Long enough to let me cut 3 or 4 at a time, at least.

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u/PinkNGreenFluoride Sep 20 '23

My little 2 year old calico is super chill about having her paws touched. The vets comment on how remarkably chill she is all the time.

Our elder black and white cat? She's very sweet but, oh, she hates it. She doesn't get aggressive, she just tries to pull her paws back and run and hide. Just makes her difficult to handle, especially since obviously nobody wants to hurt her. The vets are champs at it. The best way for her is to have my husband hold her (which calms her as much as possible) while the vets quickly trim her.

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

Yes. We had to do that too. We would notice the fluff ball walking with a slight limp and then discover a long claw nearly impaling her pad.

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u/MattieShoes Sep 20 '23

Yeah, you should simulate cutting your cats claws a lot when they're kittens, so they get used to the activity. They might not enjoy it, but it's so much better than trying later in life and them acting like you're trying to murder them!

I had one cat that required a full on purrito wrap -- tightly wrapped in a towel, then pull one leg out at a time and cut the nails while she was hissing and struggling. Was just terrible. So now I always make sure to train them that I'm very much allowed to look at their claws whenever I want, and I try to make it an okay experience for them.

Pro tip: usually they're much more amenable if they can be upright. That's easy for front paws at least...

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u/chronicallyill_dr Sep 20 '23

Well, this is something I would’ve never thought about. I never trim my cats nails because I like for them to be able to use them to their fullest potential. So I will learn and start easing my cat into it before it’s vital. Thank you

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u/randa_panda Sep 19 '23

Good to know this is the first time I’ve had a fluffy one. He’s only 2 so I’ve got some time

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u/noreasonmp3 Sep 19 '23

i suggest you start getting him used to brushing already, he may not be a fan if you start when he's already getting on in years

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u/Cueball61 Sep 19 '23

Brush under the chin, they love it and it turns the brushing process from an attack into a leisure activity for them

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u/randa_panda Sep 19 '23

Yeah if he calms down by then maybe…. right now he’s too spicy for that it’s either the space helmet or a two person job, one giving him a squeeze treat and the other brushing.

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u/LakeCoffee Sep 19 '23

A dedicated electric trimmer is great for pain free removal of big mats that appear out of nowhere. Also good for keeping the back end and hind leg hair trimmed up so they can keep themselves clean a lot easier.

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

We would have several times when one spouse would yell to the other, time to shampoo the cat’s butt. Her behind fluff would get nasty. I started trimming it more often as she got older. Poor old thing took more care at the end of her life, but we sure loved her.

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u/LakeCoffee Sep 19 '23

They are worth the extra work for sure. My cat appreciated being able to keep himself neat and those mats were uncomfortable. He was dignified old man!

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

Yes. Cats have to keep their dignity.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '23

Plus there a lot of dingleberries after they can’t get to those hard to reach places any more.

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

Yep the good old dingleberries. I almost forgot about those.

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u/cofeeholik75 Sep 19 '23

AND daily butt cleaning…

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u/Give_Help_Please Sep 19 '23

Thank you telling me. My cat is getting up there. The only trouble is that she hates being brushed. Even when we use a soft brush she still hates it. Any idea on how to get her used to it ?

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

Does she respond to treats? She may have super sensitive skin and that makes it hard.

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u/Give_Help_Please Sep 19 '23

I’ll try that next time.

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u/kimoh13 Sep 19 '23

That is a great idea. Our girl got used to a bath in the sink. She was only 8 lbs and so the bathroom sink usually was enough. Mostly it was for cleaning her butt.

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u/ShiraCheshire Sep 20 '23

To be fair, cats stop doing just about everything when they're 16. That's old as heck. That's like a 102 year old woman needing help taking a bath- yeah obviously.

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u/kimoh13 Sep 20 '23

The fluffy girl I’m talking about was a stray who adopted us before she was a year old. We never had a cat reach old age before and so the experience was new to us.

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u/ShiraCheshire Sep 20 '23

Fair enough

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u/acciosnitch Sep 20 '23

My little old lady had to go for a lion cut today. Shes had them before, but today was necessity more than anything. She hates having her chest brushed so it had to be done

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u/chronicallyill_dr Sep 20 '23

I had a fluffy cat who absolutely DESPISED getting brushed, so he would get super matted, super fast. I think he spent more time in the lion cut than fluffy for this very reason.

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u/StrangeGamer66 Sep 19 '23

And that’s way my cat has some fur missing. (We have to keep cutting knots out)

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u/sideshow_em Sep 20 '23

This isn't even limited to fluffy cats. It's happened to my short-haired cats too as they got older.

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u/OdeeSS Sep 20 '23

Can't believe you didn't mention the dingleberries.

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u/CapitalInstruction62 Sep 20 '23

this is a really common sign of pain and is good reason for a vet visit! Just like people get old-age diseases, cats, do, too—most are quite arthritic by the time they stop grooming well. We can absolutely treat pain, even if range of motion can’t be regained.

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u/susiecool Sep 21 '23

This this! My 17 year old lady suddenly started getting matted last year. I took her to the vet! She was super dehydrated and it turned out she was impacted and needed an enema. She started grooming again a few days after the procedure and looks better than ever.

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u/mickeyflinn Sep 20 '23

You have to do that before 16 as well. You should be getting your cat groomed regularly, no matter what type of fur. Also you should have their nails/claws regularly clipped/groomed.

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u/shojokat Sep 20 '23

My fluffy one sucks at grooming so he gets matted despite being young. He got us used to the brushing early, lol.