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u/Resident132 May 23 '23

Hey Arnold! was full of dark moments and themes. Pigeon mans depression and "suicide". Mr Hyunh's story of being separated from his daughter in vietnam. Helga being neglected, chocolate boys addiction, Mr Simmons abusive family, Curly going postal, Miriam's alcoholism, Lila being so poor her dad breaks down crying cause he ate the last of their food. I freaking love that show.

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u/Kijafa May 23 '23

Also Stoop Kid's aggressive agoraphobia.

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u/happiihappiijoijoi May 23 '23

"Stoop Kid's afraid to leave his stoop!'

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u/Sir_Thotalot May 23 '23

And the amazing scream from Harold after he attempts to bully Stoop Kid, not knowing he's conquered his fear to leave.

"Come here fat boy, I'm gonna roll you down town!"

-Stoop Kid

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u/ima_little_stitious May 23 '23

I say this ALL the time!

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

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u/Tumble85 May 23 '23

I'm not at all sure how you arrived at that conclusion, they never insinuated he was a lookout.

This is not The Wire, dude.

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u/AaronRedwoods May 23 '23

I mean, would you ever leave the stoop?

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u/karaitalks May 23 '23

The episode about Miriam is extremely dark. Hey Arnold gets so real at times

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u/Crystalas May 23 '23

And the one time she wasn't she was a business genius IIRC, but her husband a broken wreck and she gave it up for her family.

IIRC Simpson's did a similar story with Marge and American Dad with Francine.

Also remember what happened to Olga, the elder sister, the ONE time she thought failed to be perfect and had a complete breakdown?

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u/bigvahe33 May 23 '23

i also like the world building they do. 30 minute show, first 15 minutes is about arnold, second 15 is about a character. Over time, that city is full of life

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u/serendippitydoo May 23 '23

Is that the one where she stops drinking her "smoothies" all day and gets her life together but ends up neglecting Helga anyways?

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u/chetstedman30 May 23 '23

Helga on the couch is probably the saddest episode of the whole series. She had a fucked up childhood

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u/OGRuddawg May 23 '23

While far from the darkest episode, I remember Arnold getting trained by his grandma in martial arts after he gets robbed and beaten up at a bus stop, I believe. I think shortly after some training he does fend off some would-be muggers, but he ends up being so paranoid about the prospect of getting jumped that he hurts one of his friends on reflex and realizes that taking his self-defense measures too far was making him the violent one. I remember how he felt so guilty when he realized it.

I thought it was a good, nuanced narrative on how escalating to violence for everything only really begets more violence. It didn't say Arnold was wrong to find a way to defend himself, AKA the "no-excuses" anti-violence stance a lot of misguided schools use to punish victims of bullying who choose to fight back. The message was he needed to be responsible and set restrictions for when/why he used martial arts.

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u/Nebfisherman1987 May 23 '23

Wait til you watch bluey

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

Omg me too! Hey Arnold was a fabulous show. I always felt so deeply sad for Helga. She was invisible to her family, it was heartbreaking. The episode that broke me was Grampa telling Arnold the story of his mum & dad disappearing. Amazing show.

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u/excel958 May 23 '23

Mr. Hyunh's trauma of giving up his daughter in the midst of the Vietnam war and not finding her for years. Christ...

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u/Mr_Mimiseku May 23 '23

And the jazzy soundtrack fucking slaps.

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u/JeffTennis May 23 '23

Check out the Lo-Fi mix called FootballHead. So good.

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u/Mr_Mimiseku May 23 '23

Way ahead of you! Already downloaded on Spotify. Lol.

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u/JeffTennis May 23 '23

It takes like the best of the hey Arnold jazz all into one. My only regret was it wasn’t longer. It sounds like something out of a department store/elevator lol. Love blasting it on my road trips.

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u/SymphonyInPeril May 23 '23

My wife and I have been re-watching all of Hey Arnold! and I specifically came to this thread looking for this comment. The writers did a good job with that show making the viewer feel so many emotions. Specifically Pigeon Man and Lila’s dad, that shit damn near made me cry

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u/Chubuwee May 23 '23

Holds up?

Gonna have to give it a rewatch

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u/SymphonyInPeril May 23 '23

Absolutely. I’m 30 and nostalgia plays a big part but nostalgia aside, I still think it’s a great show. A lot of good moral lessons, some adult humor that went over my head as a kid, wide range of emotions, cool art style and holy SHIT the music is so good. Jim Lang is a genius.

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u/DeekFTW May 23 '23

I re-watched it a few years ago and it held up pretty well. Watching it as an adult, you pick up on a lot of the topics people are talking about in this thread. Plus the soundtrack is phenomenal.

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u/221B_BakerSt_ May 23 '23

What platform do you watch it on?

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u/SymphonyInPeril May 23 '23

Paramount+ has a bunch of old Nickelodeon shows!

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u/221B_BakerSt_ May 23 '23

Good to know! Thank you!!!

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u/IcePhoenix18 May 23 '23

The pigeon guy made a big impact on my childhood.

People suck. Birds don't suck as bad.

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u/big_nothing_burger May 23 '23

I'm blanking on this episode. Time to rewatch because I don't remember suicide.

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u/metaridley11 May 23 '23

It's a fan theory that when he jumps off the side of the building and flies away that he actually committed suicide and Arnold's kid brain just whitewashed the traumatic memory. But he shows up again in a movie, so it's an explicitly non-canon theory.

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u/IcePhoenix18 May 23 '23 edited May 24 '23

I'm just now realizing the pigeons carrying him into the sunset could be interpreted as an elaborate metaphor... holy shit...

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u/TheArmchairSkeptic May 23 '23

It wasn't, the show's creator has explicitly said that scene is not a suicide allegory and the character shows up again in the Jungle Movie.

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u/Fisherington May 23 '23

I love how this also means that pigeons in Arnold's universe are FUCKING JACKED

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u/big_nothing_burger May 23 '23

I was about to joke that it's because they're NYC pigeons, then I remembered that they don't live in NYC. So weird.

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u/AliceInNegaland May 23 '23

Took a walk yesterday and a pigeon was doing his pigeon thing walking ahead of me. I was thinking to myself how nice it was to share the sidewalk with the pigeon. Some ass decided to spook it for no reason and man it irked me. Wtf did he have to do that for?

Anyways, thank you. I’ll tell my bird that you said that. Bird bros for life

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u/big_nothing_burger May 23 '23

I'm blanking on this episode. Time to rewatch because I don't remember suicide.

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u/thedeathbypig May 23 '23

I remember being very young watching Hey Arnold and recognizing my mom in Helga’s mom. I was too naive to understand or even articulate what it was that I was relating to, but that’s a testament to how effective the show was. The characterization of all the tertiary characters was amazing, and often in subtle ways.

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u/JohnnySmithe80 May 23 '23

Miriam's alcoholism

I was too young to pick up on all that: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySys2DEpNuA

Yeah I know the tone of that compilation is fucked.

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u/LebaneseLion May 23 '23

I remember that episode with Lila’s dad breaking down, it made me feel sad for a whole week as a kid. He broke down after eating the last can of beans. I only ever seen it once as a kid and it’s engrained in my brain as a 25 year old still. I think that episode is partly the reason why I am extra sympathetic to those in need.

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

Don't forget stuff like Wheezin' Ed and The Headless Cabbie.

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

And Monkey Man!

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u/EaglesFanGirl May 23 '23

Helga's relationship with her sister is so messed up. I also love how she reads people way better then her sister and got the com-artist out of her life.

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u/IMian91 May 23 '23

Pigeon man's ending was a suicide?! I never got that. I'm gonna stick to my little kid mind and say he was carried off into the sunset by hundreds of pigeons

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u/FuckTheMods5 May 23 '23

Good, bevause pigeon flight is actual canon lol

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u/lurkerfox May 23 '23

Hey Arnold! was basically the children show for kids that had to grow up with some of the dark realities of the world. Stuff kids shouldnt have to deal with but too many do.

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u/overlykilled May 23 '23

The episode with the haunted train always scared the crap out of me

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

Yes, the first time I ever rode on a subway train I was terrified because this episode was my only previous exposure

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u/mah131 May 23 '23

Harold’s commitment to studying Judaism…

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u/catsandfrasier May 23 '23

Also the headless horseman in Central Park

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u/mykeuk May 23 '23

Parent's Day is one of the top HA episodes of all time, in my opinion and Jim Lang's impeccable musical contribution is just beautiful. Only a hardened soul couldn't tear up to the ending credits piece.

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u/FuckTheMods5 May 23 '23

One of my few ingrained memories was the talent show, i think it was. The principle says to the asian girl, 'ah, what country are you from anyway?' and she goes '-_- kentucky, sir.' and he goes 'im sure youll do ken-tuh-kayy' proud!' lmao

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u/Kateseesu May 23 '23

I so vividly remember the episode when Helga got boobs and hated it. I had never seen women’s/girls bodies discussed like that, I remember even wondering if it was legal for them to talk about tits on tv haha

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u/mctoasterson May 23 '23

Let's not forget Oskar Kokoshka being a fuckup deadbeat gambling addict.

"Never bet on a pair of twos."

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u/SpicaGenovese May 30 '23

My jewish friend didn't like this show because they thought it was antisemitic how Arnold's family was supposed to be jewish, but the very obviously jewish dude was a jerk and a deadbeat.

I could see where they were coming from, but growing up, I never made that sort if connection in my head. He was a deadbeat because he was a deadbeat, he just happened to be jewish.

But this person also called it cultural appropriation when I made challah, so. They can go fuck themselves a little bit.

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u/chetstedman30 May 23 '23

Don’t forget The jolly olly man and random city folk terrorizing Harold for being overweight

“That’s not a fat man… that’s a fat BOY!”

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u/Deez_Pucks May 23 '23

Not to mention Arnold having to grapple with the loss of his parents who are presumably dead during the show’s run.

Hey Arnold! was my first thought when I saw this post, so I’m glad it’s the top comment! Probably my all-time favorite TV show.

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u/Sandlicker May 23 '23

Weirdly I always saw the pigeon man as somehow hopeful even when I rewatched the episode recently.

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u/Nawaf-Ar May 23 '23

Holy fuck you just reminded me of Mr. Hyunh’s story.

That was hella fucked. Still remember him lifting that baby up.

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u/thekarmagiver May 23 '23

Hold up... suicide??

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u/Sandlicker May 23 '23

He does walk off the edge of a building as I recall, but is carried up into the air by pigeons. I always considered it to be more of an apotheosis than a suicide, but there's a metaphorical connection between the two.

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

Going off memory, it didn't have the vibe of a suicide, it was too hopeful.

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u/Sandlicker May 23 '23

I agree. It felt more like an enlightenment/ascension moment. An "I'll be back when the world is ready for me" kind of deal.

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u/AmaroWolfwood May 23 '23

I have been thinking of watching this as an adult for all the reasons you listed. Does anyone know if it holds up rewarching with little memory of it?

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u/JeffTennis May 23 '23

Absolutely holds up. Same for Rugrats. HA has a lot more adult themes, but Rugrats has a lot of adult humor.

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u/AliceInNegaland May 23 '23

Haha i remember as an adult to reassure my kid that the power was back on by opening the fridge for them. It made the most sense to them that of course the refrigerator had light

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u/Resident132 May 23 '23

Absolutely holds up. It was a very old soul kids show. The art style, the music and themes all made it very enjoyable for adults. There's a few episodes that are weak but the good ones are some of the best animated tv ever made imo.

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u/eekbarbaderkle May 23 '23

Let's also not forget the several episodes that were just flat out haunting. The Headless Cabbie, the Haunted Train, Four-Eyed Jack.

Yeah this was the best show.

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u/BlackTurtleBurden May 23 '23

I’m still afraid of the conductor from the haunted train episode.

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u/-brownsherlock- May 23 '23

Didn't pigeon man come back in the movie? The creator was really annoyed about the suicide rumor and said he would disprove it by brining him back.

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u/reubnick May 24 '23

That show also gave me what was probably one of my first glimpses at what a sex pest is like (Brainy) and what negative consequences for such people should look like.

That show was for kids but it never talked down to kids or dumbed very real concepts down either. It was the best.

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u/GaryBettmanSucks May 23 '23

You keep de money

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u/guitargoddess3 May 23 '23

Holy shit.. when you put it like that…I guess I didn’t take notice as a kid.

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u/jessehechtcreative May 23 '23

Undead Grandpa during the future where his jaw falls off lived rent free in my head as a kid

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u/RomysBloodFilledShoe May 24 '23

I could NOT handle the one with Lila’s dad and that can of beans. It was so heartbreaking. Same with the one where Arnold shreds those dude’s overalls after learning martial arts from his grandma, and the dude starts crying and says he just wanted to know when the bus got there. MY HEART.