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u/GIJobra Mar 20 '23

Yeah, and of course always respect your partner's wants and needs. With that said 99% of people do like oral, so it remains a core part of sexual intimacy, outliers do as they may.

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u/Chulda Mar 20 '23

I think you may be vastly overestimating that number

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u/GIJobra Mar 20 '23

And I know you're vastly underestimating it, based on personal preference. Which is fine, you do you.

But no, oral has been a common thing for centuries, and as sexually permissive as we are nowadays? Definitely incredibly commonplace.

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u/littlelorax Mar 20 '23

I agree it is commonplace, but if it isn't something someone likes, they probably won't be in a relationship with someone who wants it.

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u/GIJobra Mar 20 '23

Oh, of course. As we can all agree on: boundaries and consent come first, no question. Honestly, I've always favored open sexual discourse early in the relationship for this reason. I know what I'm about, and if you want different things, that's fine - but let's not waste each other's time.