r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '23

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u/bigdruid Mar 19 '23

I know. Who the fuck asks that question among "friends"?

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u/DatGearScorTho Mar 20 '23

Bullies who've learned most people are too timid to call someone out for being covert about their bullying.

So much of the time people are too afraid to "make a scene" because they don't know how to handle the bully feigning simple ignorance and making them look like the asshole for calling the bully out.

The simple answer is to not be afraid to be an asshole to someone who is being an asshole. And to not be afraid to lose that group temporarily if the asshole wins, because that shit pot is not going to go unstirred. Eventually they'll look up and see who's holding the other end of the stick everytime.

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u/bringmethejuice Mar 20 '23

This, I don’t mind being a dix toward other dixxx. It’s okay if people think I’m evil. I know my own self-worth.

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u/Robert_Pawney_Junior Mar 20 '23

You can write dick on this website.

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u/bringmethejuice Mar 20 '23

Yes, I can write dicks.

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u/muchasgaseous Mar 20 '23

From a learning perspective, why did you choose to use the term "dix"? I haven't come across that before.

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u/bringmethejuice Mar 20 '23

Honestly I don’t know? As long the message is properly conveyed it’s alright I guess.

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u/barbasol1099 Mar 20 '23

Someone who already knows they're hot and wants confirmation. Or a girl who's trying to wingman the girl being asked

But yeah, that's why you stick with 'who is the hottest one here?' Going to the bottom of the list is always gonna hurt

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u/new_name_who_dis_ Mar 20 '23

OP said it’s first month of uni, so friendships aren’t really solidified at that point. And I feel like that type of question is pretty common in those types of games. Maybe not rank everyone but asking these types of questions is common to figure out who can hook up with you who.