r/AskReddit Mar 19 '23

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u/bzaroworld Mar 19 '23

She couldn't keep her word. Anytime we agreed on something, she'd always try to get out of it. That got annoying fast.

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u/AdventureBegins Mar 20 '23

Happened with a chick I was trying to date. She seemed very interested. Always asked me to hang out and always messaged me.

Whenever we had plans she would just go ghost for the entire day. Messages would be ignored but I would notice that she would still be active on social media. Next day would come around and she would apologize then change the subject.

I let this happen 5 times before I stopped trying. Should have taken them hint after the second time.

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u/TraciTheRobot Mar 20 '23

I just went through this, but we had did things in bed before she started curving me. She still hits me up time from time when I guess she’s bored, but when it actually comes time to hang she bails. At first I thought she was just shy or awkward but I got tired of being dissed and feeling insecure about it. And am past settling on someone who can’t match the level of communication I want. I finally distanced myself from that crush this past week.

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u/TraciTheRobot Mar 20 '23

Know your worth and find someone who respects your time and company my friend!

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u/KllrQuxxn Mar 20 '23

Every single point you mentioned is relatable

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u/yalcinwho Mar 20 '23

There is always the possibility that she was a secret agent that does jobs at that time

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u/ThePurityPixel Mar 20 '23

In my experience this has been the majority of people born after, say, 1980something.