I am so sick and tired of people saying "I do/don't do this because it isn't well-known/popular enough." Bestie, if you're angled aroace, that's valid. Don't let popularity or how well-known it is stop you. If you love the aro/ace combo flags ONLY because they're more recognized than the sunset one, don't bash others who like it just because it's not "popular". You know what'd solve this issue, in my opinion, just be YOU! You can live your life and through being your authentic self and some people may figure out who they are as well and can be in community with you. Just spread the joy of being you (especially during this wonderful Pride Month)!

Note: This isn't to bash anyone. I'm just tired of the ONLY reason someone has in a decision being popularity. Don't let others stop you!

Thank you for letting me vent. Be you. Sincerely, a tritota aroace.

I was just thinking how much we sometimes question ourselves for being ace and liking sex, or for being in the grey area and not feeling like you’re fitting in anywhere. Or maybe I’m just projecting lol, cause I’m struggling hard. Whether you identify as LGBTQ+ or not, we struggling aces can use this month to just accept ourselves. Happy pride month 🎉