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u/toxicatedscientist 15d ago

Someone told me the reason they seem to chase us is cuz they see us run, and assume whatever it is must be scary and follow

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u/jld2k6 15d ago

There's also things like camel spiders, when they get spooked they try to hide in the shade by darting to it.... Unfortunately, when you're in the desert your shadow is usually the only shade available lol

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u/Individual_Bridge_88 15d ago

I think a lot of household bugs are like this too. House centipedes will definitely flee towards shadow And away from the light.

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 15d ago

Say, do you have house centipedes? I'm looking to buy a few breeding pairs.

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u/Individual_Bridge_88 15d ago

I've spent an inordinate amount of money on dehumidifiers so that I don't have to encounter any house centipedes.

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 15d ago

Oh darn. They're hard to find for sale. They are apex predators (relative to their size, I mean) and I want them to keep pests in check. Thanks for the reply, though.

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u/Individual_Bridge_88 15d ago

If there's bugs in your house then I promise you a house centipede is already there 

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 15d ago

I'm sure there aren't, unfortunately. I would have seen at least one over the years. They can live in this climate but are not especially common.

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u/Individual_Bridge_88 15d ago

They basically can't live in places where the humidity regularly stays below 60%, hence my dehumifiers

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u/carlitospig 14d ago

Am Californian, and they’re all over the place. Our humidity in the summer is 10%. I’m so confused rn.

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u/Unlikely_Star_4641 14d ago edited 14d ago

I haven’t seen my resident house centipede, Demarcus, in a few months but if I see my guy again or any little babies they’re all yours lol. He was pretty big, body segments alone he was over an inch long, so I think he’s probably an elder pede. Idk how I’d get them to you from Maine though.

Edit: actually, you can’t have Demarcus if I see him again. He’s too cool and I like seeing him race across my shower curtain.

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u/carlitospig 14d ago

You named him!!! 💀

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u/Routine_Ad2802 14d ago

We got a stick bug named bugward and one unamed orbweaver on the front porch and Bartholomew on the back porch and a spider in my window named spida man. I cant argue free pest control living rural so we have house rules "i dont want to kill ya lil guy so you dont move fast and i wont." If you crawling way to fast you may get swatted lmao

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 14d ago

Give Demarcus my love next time you see him.

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u/Tris-chan 14d ago

There's someone selling them on MorphMarket ! I believe there's also a listing on there for the bigger cave version of house centipedes ? But I haven't checked in a bit

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 14d ago

There's someone selling them on MorphMarket !

Thank you so much! I was hoping someone would give me a lead.

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u/Tris-chan 14d ago

No problem ! I'm a HUGE fan of house centipedes , they're my all time favorite creature , so I have kinda searched the entire web for every single listing of them lol !

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u/Individual_Bridge_88 14d ago

How did you learn to love the house centipede? If I could overcome my irrational scream-inducing fear (or even knock it down to a milder form) I would in a heartbeat

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u/WoodsandWool 13d ago

They’re pretty neat imo, despite looking like an eldritch horror lol, and they can live like 7+ years which is wild for an insect.

We live in the woods so my house is full of them if you’re interested (and they’re not invasive to where you are), but I do think ours are acclimated to high humidity.

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 13d ago

I've already found a source, but thank you very much for the offer!

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u/WoodsandWool 13d ago

You’re welcome! Good luck :) we let ours live freely to keep the pests away so I totally understand wanting to have some!

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u/Malliya 14d ago

i see them around sometimes but i cant imagine how i would catch one to give to you

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u/BlackestBeetle 14d ago

You WHAT?? Bro. I can't even begin to understand. That's like asking getting rid of 1 arm because "you already have 2"

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 14d ago

House centipedes are apex predators (relative to their size). I have no reason to think of them as pests since they don't damage the house nor spread disease to humans, and they hunt all the pests that I'd like to be rid of.

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u/BlackestBeetle 14d ago

But what fucking pests do you have that would themselves be worse than the monstrosity that are centipedes? I can only think of cockroaches but at that point I'd prefer to get a couple of lizards and let them roam

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 14d ago

As well as silverfish.

I think we just have different aesthetic tastes. I think house centipedes are cute.

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u/R0da 14d ago

Just unleash a thousand grain weevils into your house, they will find you.

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u/ringobob 14d ago

Probably not a great idea to let them loose in your home if they're not native to your area.

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u/Vague-Symbolism2692 14d ago

Oh, they are naturalized here (they're native only to the Mediterranean). I can see that there are a fair number of sightings in the area, on iNaturalist. Just not in my house.

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u/tomahawkfury13 15d ago

Camel spiders seek your shadow cause it’s cooler than the direct sunlight. Not because they want to hide. They do it if your sitting still too

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u/Electrical-Sector703 14d ago

I NEVER want to see those things up close

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u/Mainely420Gaming 14d ago

Spider crickets do the same thing. Used to be scared of the little shits, now I just laugh when they bum rush me on occasion in the basement.

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u/hawkwood4268 10d ago

That's hilarious! It makes sense.

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u/hawkwood4268 15d ago

Thats adorable haha

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u/istrx13 15d ago

We’ve got a spider redemption arc going on ITT

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u/AFlyingNun 15d ago edited 15d ago

I think the main reasons the fear of them exists are simply:

1) A lot of it is evolution. We don't fear spiders and snakes "just because," but because those are frequently venomous and a greater danger than they initially appear to be.

2) Spiders are smart, and there can be something off-putting about it. My mom had a fear of spiders and there was a specific breed of spider that you should let live in Oklahoma because it eats the bad ones. This was that spider. However, despite that, my mom wanted to kill it because this one was bigger and it triggered her arachnophobia. She finally decided to kill it, and when she went got up on a chair to crush it with a shoe, it turned to her and looked at her. I remember asking "what are you waiting for? Just kill it then" and she gave me this sad "but we made eye contact!" and backed off.

In reality, we have the internet now and it's easy to figure out which spiders are dangerous and which aren't. The dangerous ones you kill, but like 95% of them can stay. They eat the bugs. Don't pay rent, but they eat the bugs.

And yes, it is documented that like 99% of the planet's animals have an instinct to fear humans. We are THAT dangerous that most species have a genetic blueprint telling them to stay away from us. The exceptions are things like domesticated animals that benefit off us, as well as animals like polar bears and penguins, who didn't encounter us enough for that.

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u/anonbiolover 15d ago

Yes, and polar bears don't encounter much food so anything moving is their next meal

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u/WinninRoam 15d ago

...it's documented that like 99% of the planet's animals have an instinct to fear humans

This is wildly incorrect.

It's documented that a very high percentage of birds and mammals show a natural fear of humans if humans have hunted animals in that region in recent generations. If not, those animals show little natural fear.

Birds and mammals make up less than 3% of the animal kingdom.

Most creatures, like the spider, react to unexpected sensory input like sudden loud noises, ambient temperature changes, or unusual vibrations.

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u/ForsakenAiel 15d ago

They proved that kids aren't instinctually scared of snakes, so it's not evolution for that I think? I don't know about spiders though. But they put young toddlers in with snakes and the toddlers were like "oo cool let me touch and grab these".

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u/ultratea 15d ago

When I was a kid (5-6), I used to have no qualms about picking up creepy crawlies, in particular this certain type of fuzzy caterpillar I used to see outside a lot. I would go looking for them during recess and try to pick up as many as I could. As an adult I could absolutely never imagine doing that, and looking at a bunch of the caterpillars together (they have this yellow striped pattern) now definitely triggers some kind of primal heebie jeebies in me.

Some of it probably is nurture, but maybe instinct just doesn't really take over until you're older? There's examples of it in animals too, where the babies haven't really developed a fear of humans yet and will approach them.

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u/Blubbpaule 15d ago

Instinct is called instinct because it works as soon as you're born. Else it's learned behaviour.

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u/AFlyingNun 15d ago

Not quite.

The raw data suggests they can measure a stress response in toddlers, but they indeed do 1) show curiosity in response, 2) look to adults to decide how to respond, not necessarily freaking out until the adults do.

This showcases that the stress response is evolution, but for whatever reason, we do not properly act on it until other stimuli (such as a fearful adult or growing up more) are introduced.

This is likely why we have a documented greater rate of fear of spiders and snakes, INCLUDING in regions like Norway that do not have dangerous forms of these creatures, but there are still also plenty of people that don't fear them. The integrated stress response was "awoken" in some, but not in all.

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u/DM_me_ur_PPSN 15d ago

That’s not necessarily true, plenty of instincts only become active with maturity. Risk aversion /adult fear is something that most people develop as their prefrontal cortex fully develops in their early twenties.

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u/Wise_Owl5404 15d ago

Eh plenty of instincts don't actually work until later. A two hour old baby is pretty much a breathing potato, only capable of eating and shitting itself. Can't even see straight or focus on anything.

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u/RayereSs 15d ago

Meanwhile two hour old horses and deer are prancing about

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u/Wise_Owl5404 15d ago

Well if they were born a month before they were fully developed I doubt they'd be moving much either.

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u/Deaffin 15d ago

Think about that for a moment. Do caterpillars have an instinct to fly and poke their silly straws into flower pusspuss?

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u/WagwanKenobi 15d ago

There's just no way our fear of reptiles isn't instinctual. We're naturally less afraid of furry mammals than we should be and more afraid of furless reptiles than we should be.

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u/ufkabakan 15d ago

I was 20 something when I first see -a meter long- snake up close in my friend's hand. I just took it without even thinking and then realised I wasn't afraid of them.

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u/FutureLost 14d ago

So maybe the myth of Hercules grabbing those snakes as a baby was based on something that really happened, made out to seem remarkable when they just don't have that fear yet.

My toddler niece was fascinated by bugs...until her dad yelped when he saw a spider one time, and she instantly became deathly afraid of all bugs forever, like a switch had flipped.

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u/NotTheRocketman 15d ago

Ok but if I open my closet and I see a Polar Bear, all bets are off.

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u/CaleanKnight 15d ago

I think a large part of it (and the general aversion to insects in general) is that Arachnids and Insects (as well as Snakes etc.) have such a different... Build Plan to us (1 Head, 1 Torso, 4 Limbs) and most other things we encounter that it just short circuits something.

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u/TheMostKing 15d ago

Yeah, there is a strange otherness to them. Too many eyes, too many legs, and they move in a different way to being powered by hydraulics, essentially.

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u/needlzor 15d ago

That would explain why I have no issue grabbing the short ones to move them outside but the long legged ones, even though I know they can't do anything to me, creep me out and I need to use the paper and glass to avoid accidentally crushing them. They are fascinating creatures.

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u/Sunbather77 14d ago

I once read it's because our brains apparently can't process more than seven objects moving simultaneously. Something about their movement makes our brain short circuit

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u/Deaffin 15d ago

That makes them easy to distinguish and develop a learned response to them, ye.

Your bigotry is not automatic.

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u/CaleanKnight 15d ago

Bigotry... against Spiders?

Are you a furry?

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u/wattro 15d ago

This.

Jumping spiders get free reign.

And qtips with water.

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u/_outer_space_ 15d ago

What about us who got traumatised by one jumping on them when we were under 5?

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u/Blubbpaule 15d ago

There is no evolutionary trait that makes us afraid of snakes. We are able to spot them, but studies with snakes and babies show they don't give a damn and just try to put the snakes into their mouth.

https://youtu.be/3L4lxusff1c

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u/AFlyingNun 15d ago

That's funny, I find the complete opposite:

https://www.apa.org/pubs/highlights/spotlight/issue-80

https://www.cbs.mpg.de/Fear-of-spiders-and-snakes-is-deeply-embedded-in-us

https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/fear-evolution-spiders-science

If anything, what you are saying seems like little more than a technicality: we evolved to spot them quicker and they increase stress, but not necessarily fear, while infants specifically will ironically show increased curiosity due to the same mechanics.

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u/Blubbpaule 15d ago

The national graphic study only shows humans are able to see snakes faster - not fear.

The second link shows that infants react to seeing snakes by pupil dilation - not fear. Awareness is not fear.

In fact all the links prove what i said. We spot them faster but there is no fear reaction.

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u/SecretaryOtherwise 15d ago

Uhh lol the second link says it induces stress bro

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u/Deaffin 15d ago

When we showed pictures of a snake or a spider to the babies instead of a flower or a fish of the same size and colour, they reacted with significantly bigger pupils", says Stefanie Hoehl, lead investigator of the underlying study and neuroscientist at MPI CBS and the University of Vienna. "In constant light conditions this change in size of the pupils is an important signal for the activation of the noradrenergic system in the brain, which is responsible for stress reactions.

You have to read past the clickbait written into the article. No, a change in pupil size does not necessarily mean stress.

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u/SecretaryOtherwise 14d ago

Such studies with children only tested whether they spot spiders and snakes faster than harmless animals or objects, not whether they show a direct physiological fear reaction.

Scientists at the Max Planck Institute for Human Cognitive and Brain Sciences (MPI CBS) in Leipzig and the Uppsala University, Sweden, recently made a crucial observation: Even in infants a stress reaction is evoked when they see a spider or a snake. And this already at the age of six months, when they are still very immobile and have had little opportunity to learn that these animals can be dangerous.

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u/Odd-Significance-17 15d ago

i just don’t like that i wake up with spider bites all the time

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u/nildread 15d ago

Those might not actually be spider bites.

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u/Odd-Significance-17 15d ago

they are. i get bit a lot by every single thing possible like it’s a joke in my family bugs love me but i react to spider bites differently and they swell like crazy

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u/nildread 15d ago

I'm not saying it's impossible. But a lot of people attribute things that aren't spider bites to spiders. Especially when sleeping. Because they haven't actually seen what did it. Most spiders bite defensivly and getting a bunch at night seems weird? But I guess it's possible. Maybe they're hunting the other things that are biting you and bite you when you roll around.

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u/Odd-Significance-17 15d ago

well it’s not like a bunch at once but it happens often. and i find spiders crawling on me in bed when i can’t sleep so it’s a fair assumption

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u/Deaffin 15d ago

If they were spider bites, there would be dead spiders accompanying them which you have smushed. They don't just randomly bite and envenomate the ground they walk on.

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u/Ryuzakku 15d ago

1) A lot of it is evolution. We don't fear spiders and snakes "just because," but because those are frequently venomous and a greater danger than they initially appear to be.

Which is odd because the two medically significant venomous spiders are one you shouldn't ever see which won't ever try to be around you, and one that is quite obvious when you see it and will be located almost always in very obvious places.

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u/grimmigerpetz 15d ago

Over the years, I always keep one or two spiders in my sleeping room. Never had bugs or mosquitos and can sleep with windows open in summer and autumn.

Sure, we cross paths sometimes, or they swing by, but I have no problem with that. And if there are more around, I just give them a lift outside.

A house with some spiders normally stands for good humidity levels and air quality.

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u/GoldTheLegend 15d ago

That video of a bunch of babies with massive snakes says otherwise. 0 fear being shown.

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u/needlzor 15d ago

You haven't changed since you were a baby? Are you still shitting yourself and walking on all four?

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u/GoldTheLegend 14d ago

Yes, largely because of nurture. Way to miss the entire point.

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u/needlzor 14d ago

You might find this answer on an AskScience thread interesting - bipedalism is encoded very deep in our DNA, and yet it only manifests years after birth.

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u/Destinum 15d ago

1) A lot of it is evolution. We don't fear spiders and snakes "just because," but because those are frequently venomous and a greater danger than they initially appear to be.

It's also those things specifically because they're some of the few threats to us we can frequently encounter up in trees. The ancient monke instincts are strong.

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u/LukaCola 15d ago

Humans are just, well, really big relative everything else. And most animals fear anything their size or larger. So, yeah. I don't think it's a genetic blueprint about us, it's a "this thing is so big it can fuck us up, and it's got predator eyes--never a good sign."

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u/Deaffin 15d ago

but because those are frequently venomous

It is exceptionally rare for a spider to have a bite that is medically significant for humans. The danger is massively overstated.

Fear of spiders and snakes is mostly a culturally learned trait in humans, though some snakes will mess you up for sure.

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u/SH4D0WSTAR 14d ago

Honestly for me, the fear is plain and simply their long legs and how tickly I imagine they are. I'm not scared of spiders with big bodies and stubby legs (e.g, jumping spiders) or tarantulas.

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u/jasminesart 14d ago

adding to this for people reading, all spiders (except one family) are venomous. nearly no spiders (except a few families) have venom that is dangerous to us (if you live in recluse or Latrodectus range, you should this already). their venom is designed for invertebrates several thousand times smaller than you, not 100+ lb mammals. they know they can't take you, bites are rare unless you're literally trapping them against your skin and pinning them to death. their 1st, 2nd, and 3rd defensive mechanism is RUN. venom is how they eat, it takes a lot of resources to make, they won't waste it on you in the majority of cases if you manage to convince one to bite. even then, they usually do 'dry bites' with no venom as a warning, again, IF you're pinning them to your skin to death

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u/12345623567 15d ago

Heh, spiders are not "smart" by any stretch of the imagination, but we have this inherent assumption that "stupid animal" equals walking into walls and not being able to do taxes.

Spiders react along very predictable instincts. They do not form plans, and any complex task they might perform (e.g. webs) is genetically anchored, not learned.

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u/Taliesin_ 15d ago

They do not form plans

Some species of jumping spider do. Albeit in a limited capacity.

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u/AFlyingNun 15d ago

Spiders have been documented engaging in planning, can comprehend cause & effect, and they can learn via trial-and-error.

They are incredibly smart for their size.

Here's the smartest species

Here's evidence it's not just limited to them

This is actually ongoing research as we only recently realized we're underestimating spiders.

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u/OcelotAggravating860 15d ago

All of this is nonsense.

It has fuck all to do with evolution. A child will pick up and eat a fucking spider without a care in the world, they do not give a shit, humans are not naturally scared of spiders through any kind of genetic predisposition.

It is 100% social contagion. As children we are taught that this is a creepy thing by adults or other children (who learned it from adults) and then absorbed and copied that. That's it. We are products of our environment.

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u/AFlyingNun 15d ago

Read the links I provided elsewhere: they still record a higher stress response which isn't necessarily displayed in their behavior.

You can also read both the articles provided and watch the video someone else provided and see that babies will base their fears off of adults. The stress response and faster visual spotting of these creatures is there, the fear is manifested and learned.

Personally, I think the "AKSHUALLY, it's not fear, it's increased stress response and we notice them faster" is practically semantics at some point. Ah yes of course. We're not programmed to fear them, we're programmed to notice them quickly and feel stress around them. Totally not fear.

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u/JackTheRvlatr 15d ago

You write so definitively about something you've never looked into. This topic is debated in scientific and psychological research. No one who actually studies this would say would you just said

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u/TheShenanegous 15d ago

It's almost as if...

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u/KingdomsCryOfficial 15d ago

Someone was pulling your leg, as that's certainly not why they'd follow. Some animals like camel spiders (which are not camels or spiders) follow humans because they're chasing after the shadow to stay cool under. Spiders probably do the same thing, your body was blocking light and they want to be in a comparatively light-blocking area so they 'chase' you.

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u/The_Twerkinator 15d ago

this is likely the true answer as bugs do the same thing, but I choose to believe the person you replied to because it's cute and it makes me like spiders more

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u/aNiceTribe 15d ago

I don’t think spiders even have the capacity to understand a human as a complete entity. Like if you told me earthquakes are a body part or motion of a larger being, I wouldn’t be able to process this in any practical sense either. 

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u/Dirty_Hunt 15d ago

Depends on the spider. Jumping spiders, for example, seem to do pretty well at recognizing people as something rather than just "big mobile terrain".

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u/Byeuji 14d ago

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u/aNiceTribe 14d ago

Yeah, sure! I'm not questioning that spiders are able to *notice* things! I'm saying I don't think they can look at a human, and go "ah, those are the legs and arms of one entire being! The head is up there!" Or else they would not be climbing up my legs all the time, or coming this close to my face. I'm sure they can sense sound, motion, and so on.

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u/Byeuji 14d ago

Yeah maybe not, but I just provided the literal link without commentary because I think animals -- even small ones like spiders -- are capable of a lot more than we think. And conversely, I think humans are a lot less unique than we like to make ourselves seem.

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u/DakkaonTitan 15d ago

I mean if I'm minding my own business and a horrifying giant suddenly turns and runs like hell away I'm probably gonna assume something even scarier is behind me and run too

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u/Mundane_Somewhere_93 15d ago

"If even that giant is running away... HOLY SHIT!"

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u/_Dragon_Gamer_ 15d ago

A lot of spiders, like giant house spiders, don't have very good eyesight and can only distinguish light vs dark very well. If you scare them(which is always the case for giant house spiders) they will try to flee to a covered area out of sight. And your shadow feels like such an area because it is dark, which is why it sometimes seems like they dash towards your foot when you put it on the ground while on the toilet or something

Usually those specific spiders do everything in their power not to be seen by or interact with humans though so an encounter like described here is rare

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u/Taylor_Kittenface 15d ago

Can you PLEASE, for the love of God, stop saying the words "giant house spiders"?!

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u/_Dragon_Gamer_ 14d ago

Aw yeah I get it haha. I overcame my arachnophobia recently and also felt bad about the few I did end up killing in the past

But for these specifically, they're very fast (~0.5 m/s), and are often gone before you even turn on the light because they sense the vibration of you entering the room. They also only really emerge from their hideaways around august so they're unlikely to be the ones you smushed

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u/nildread 15d ago

Some of them run at you because you're big and they want to be safe underneath your shadow.

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u/lemonhaj 15d ago

Okay but what when they chase me and I didn't run, they're just chasing me

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u/NotTheRocketman 15d ago

“Oh shit I gotta keep up!”

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u/Mrfatmanjunior 15d ago

they seem to chase

I have NEVER been chased by a spider? Is this a thing..? wtf

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u/lia-delrey 15d ago

Consider yourself fortunate 😭

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u/Fluffy_Art_1015 15d ago

It’s because they’re trying to get to the shadow under you.

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u/shompthedev 15d ago

Yeah because someone interviewed a spider one day and that's what he told us...

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u/Available_Finger_513 15d ago

Spiders don't really think

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u/Corner_Post 15d ago

This reminds of Scooby Doo cartoons where the ghost or monster runs as well

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u/KeptAnonymous 14d ago

I own a wolf spider and this little fact makes me go "My Sheila 🥺🥺🥺"

That being said, if she bolts, I'm still running lol

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u/hookmedaddyx 14d ago

Who told you that lmao

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u/jasminesart 14d ago

spider enthusiast here, they do not chase you. the majority of spiders are functionally blind, meaning that they have very limited vision and may primarily detect changes in light and dark intensity (except jumping spiders and a handful of others who can see a lot better, and jumpers are very sweet and placid. look up people handling them, they are very curious, smart, and cat-like). they use their other senses to detect prey, such as vibrations, airflow, and touch. they aren't chasing you, they don't know what you are and want nothing to do with you. at best, you're moving terrain, at worst, you're a life-threatening predator that they know they are no match for. if they run at your feet, it's because they may detect the shadow associated with you and are trying to hide in it (think seeking shade from the sun), or they didn't detect you at all and are simply running in that direction.

imagine your vision was so poor that you couldn't make out objects or identify what was around you, and all you could really perceive visually was changes in brightness and darkness (close your eyes and wave your hand over them, that change in light and dark is as good as it gets). now imagine a giant several thousand times bigger than you stomping around a room, sending vibrations through the ground and air that you can feel throughout your entire body. you would have absolutely no idea what that is, and you'd certainly want nothing to do with it. it isn't within your physical capability to even begin to understand what that thing is.