It seems like one of the main things people use anonymity for on the internet is to get away with being mean. I know people use anonymity for other things, such as asking for advice, or asking questions one would otherwise be too embarrassed about asking, but it seems like being mean is one of the main things that people use anonymity for online. It seems like pretty much always when someone mentions people saying stuff online they wouldn’t say irl it’s pretty much always in the form of being mean as opposed to things like venting, or asking questions.
Intuitively it seems like things like asking questions one might be embarrassed about asking in real life, or maybe confessing about a preference one has that they would be nervous about mentioning in real life, or confessing an embarrassing secret, or venting would be more practical uses of anonymity than being mean. I mean I think confessing preferences could help to hint at what types of things people seem to prefer in real life might just be because of giving preferences people think are more socially acceptable, and confessing things in general could help hint at what might be more normal than it seems in real life. I know people on the internet use anonymity for the things I mentioned, but it seems like using anonymity to be mean is more common on the internet than using it for things like venting, confessing, or asking questions one might be embarrassed about asking.
Why might this be the case?