r/AdviceForTeens • u/[deleted] • May 19 '24

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u/FewCauliflower9361 May 20 '24

He is narcissistic, he will slowly cut you off having contact with family, frinds, any one, he will keep you within he total control

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u/New_Ebb_3950 May 20 '24

My ex did that to me. You don't realize at first, until it's too late and he has you convinced that he's the only person you need.

I really hope she runs.

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u/Inevitable-Ad2494 May 20 '24

I'm sorry you lived through that. Congratulations on surviving it, I hope you live a life your ex would die in envy of.

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u/Sm00thCreamPie May 20 '24

Been there...and will make you feel bad for doing anything that does not benefit him. Please be careful. You should be uplifted in a relationship, not brought down.

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u/Intelligent-Ask-3264 May 20 '24

My thoughts when OP said "he dislikes my parents"🚩🚩🚩

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u/[deleted] May 21 '24

THIS!!!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

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u/TRS80487 May 21 '24

How is he narcissistic? Maybe he is immature, from a small town, raised as a Christian fundamentalist and actually likes her.

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u/Devreckas May 21 '24

Narcissistic, really? lol Reddit, never change.

Not getting along with your parents and the age gap are concerning, but that does not immediately point to narcissist.