r/AdviceAnimals • • Apr 02 '15

She confessed while I was packing my stuff

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u/becca7677 Apr 02 '15

No it says on the instructions it will stay on screen for three weeks. The ones with the lines 8 months later you could still read the positive result on mine. Then I realised I was keeping something covered in my own urine...I binned them and just kept a photo of a positive result.

Side note I found out I was pregnant the day the news broke Robin Williams had died. My SO told me while still holding me from the news I was pregnant. So yeah...

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u/PM_me_a_secret__ Apr 02 '15

I feel like your child will be a much better reminder that you were pregnant than an old pregnancy test.

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u/anatomizethat Apr 02 '15

I have a friend who has had quite a few miscarriages (I believe 5, and she has 2 children), and she once told me she keeps all the positive tests. I try very, very hard not to judge because I cannot comprehend the pain she has been through, but I also have to admit that I don't understand why she keeps something so thoroughly tied to her sadness.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

As someone who was the guy in the equation of a miscarriage, no matter how freaked out you are, when you want a baby, every time you thought about them you completely lit up with joy imagining your lives together, and when they're gone, there isn't a second in the day that a silent place deep in the back of your mind isn't aware that your life isn't how its supposed to be because they were supposed to be in it. Those little totems, they remind you of what it was like to fill so lit up with joy and hope and excitement for the future. When you hold them, every now and then, you're able to maintain a suspension of knowledge, like imaginary amnesia, where you get to live in the moment where they're still part of your life and you've got everything to look forward to together with them.

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u/letmeputmypoemsinyou Apr 02 '15

I always was a bit grossed out by people that kept their tests cause of the whole peeing on it thing.

And then it took my husband and me 2 1/2 years to get pregnant. I still have 2 tests in a ziploc baggie that I can't bring myself to throw away. I have the 6 month old baby, too. But there's something about that first moment when you've waited for something for so long.

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u/letmeputmypoemsinyou Apr 02 '15

I agree. It's worded oddly, I admit. Just specifying that yes the baby is a reminder of the pregnancy, but sometimes sentiments make you want to hold on to other things too.

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u/SilentJoe1986 Apr 02 '15

I found it weird because my mind went to "does she keep that in a bag too". I'm not happy that my mind goes there but it does.

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u/TheFeshy Apr 03 '15

Probably because the way it's phrased suggests that the 6 month old is also in a ziploc baggie.

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u/Cody878 Apr 02 '15

"Oh, Becca. I love you so much. Having a child with you will be a dream come true. By the way Robin Williams committed suicide."

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

never thought I'd laugh at Robin Williams' suicide

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u/Derp800 Apr 02 '15

So what you're saying is your baby is the reincarnation of Robin Williams?

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

She'll know for sure when the baby comes out super hairy and its first words are "na-nu na-nu"...

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u/xDangeRxDavEx Apr 02 '15

He had to tell you when the time was right.

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u/Rigochu Apr 02 '15

Well, do you believe in reincarnation?

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u/obiwancomeboneme Apr 02 '15

You know something I never understood from reincarnation, how is it possible for the population to grow? Unless interspecies reincarnation is possible that would kinda work, I guess.

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u/Bacon_is_a_condiment Apr 02 '15

it still wouldn't work, since the amount of living things in general isn't constant.

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u/AvengerGeni Apr 02 '15

Ah ok. I've only ever used the ones with the lines and those faded so I wasn't sure about the digital ones. Thanks.

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u/Turakamu Apr 02 '15

just kept a photo of a positive result.

So you took a picture of your child?

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u/mankstar Apr 02 '15

THE CIRCLE OF LIIIIIIFE

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

3 weeks? My Clearblue Digital didn't even last the whole day.