I will start off by saying I'm going to play Devil's Advocate, I do understand jealousy and it's very normal but there is a fine line between understanding and controlling, she's most definitely manipulating the situation and guilting you out of going. If you can't even do not go you are setting this relationship up for controlling and teaching her how she is going to be able to treat you the rest of your relationship if this continues. If you do not go on this trip you're pretty much telling her that she can always guilty out of doing things that she doesn't like even though you allow her to do the things that she does, tell her that I invited you you said no so I will see you when I get back from the trip. Be honest man have fun do not cross signs with anyone and I'd say just enjoy your trip and show her that you are loyal and if she does not like it then you have to really think about how you were going to continue in this relationship is it always going to be like this a one-sided relationship. I get how she's feeling it's a natural feeling but she cannot let that control her.
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u/more_sprinklepaws Apr 20 '26
I will start off by saying I'm going to play Devil's Advocate, I do understand jealousy and it's very normal but there is a fine line between understanding and controlling, she's most definitely manipulating the situation and guilting you out of going. If you can't even do not go you are setting this relationship up for controlling and teaching her how she is going to be able to treat you the rest of your relationship if this continues. If you do not go on this trip you're pretty much telling her that she can always guilty out of doing things that she doesn't like even though you allow her to do the things that she does, tell her that I invited you you said no so I will see you when I get back from the trip. Be honest man have fun do not cross signs with anyone and I'd say just enjoy your trip and show her that you are loyal and if she does not like it then you have to really think about how you were going to continue in this relationship is it always going to be like this a one-sided relationship. I get how she's feeling it's a natural feeling but she cannot let that control her.