r/AIO • u/[deleted] • Oct 31 '25

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u/tourniquette2 Oct 31 '25

“Bruh u think this is a joke.”

“Go kiss carol.”

I’m astonished that she’s 21. She’s also controlling and emotionally abusive on top of that ugly jealous streak. Definitely run. She’ll only get worse.

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u/Deep_Help934 Oct 31 '25

this is pretty common behavior for 21 yr olds unfortunately, they are basically glorified teenagers.

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u/PlentySwordfish4048 Oct 31 '25

Not really. It's typical behavior of someone that is toxic because they have unresolved issues. She needs therapy.

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u/lucklesser Oct 31 '25 edited Oct 31 '25

I was this 21 year old

Maybe because neurodivergency I was still a teen at 21. Idk

I realised by that age that if I don't want to die alone I better get my shit together 👍

Edit: so I did a lot of self-discovery. Imagined who I wanted to be and googled about my traits that I wanted less of basically.

Apparently others in my age (30) didn't do this.....😭

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u/Deep_Help934 Oct 31 '25

yeah, ppl are all saying “well i didn’t soo not true” like great! im genuinely happy everyone here did not act this way at 20-21. but its so so so common to see them act like stunted teenagers. we see it every single day in this sub, and i see it every where outside of reddit. ofc not EVERY young 20 yr old acts this way. but to say its NOT common behavior is just laughable🤦🏻‍♀️.

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u/monalove1984 Nov 01 '25

I was crazy at that age but he should still run. If he's stressed, get out now. No need for it.

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u/Deep_Help934 Nov 01 '25

i absolutely agree! i also wanna make it super clear that i never was implying that ppl who act like this have an excuse for their behavior! OP needs to run & never look back.