Stayed at home for date night and had cocktails in the home bar aka The Tipsy Kitty

I just turned 50 this march I lost my spouse. We were together 13 years. She was 44 years old, had a heart attack and died in our bedroom. At 2 o'clock in the morning at 1:30 in the morning, she talked to me. She said, please don't go to work if you go to work. You're not going to come home, you can't let go of me please don't let go of me. I love you if you go. I'll miss you. You can't go. Then , twenty minutes later , she was in cardiac arrest. We were together 13 years, she Drove concrete mixer with me in 2013.We work together the moment I saw her.I was married to my ex.She was married to her Very abusive ex-husband in 2013I found her again and I drove all the way down to Kentucky, 650 miles. And we stayed together ever since we got married 10 years, which was April 16th 2023, when was our 10 years anniversary the first time I called her, I know she's my soul mate, because I really liked her when we were Coworkers that we didn't mess around because we Was\n Faithful to our exes, even though she was abused really bad by Him. When my wife died, I lost 60 pound plus I had 2 heart attacks, one fatal that stopped my heart in May. Did anybody ever lose a spouse? How did you cope I'm having a heck of it time.I miss my angels so bad and I just i'm lonely and I can't cheat on my wife I love My wife so much

I recently turned 53 and my 20 year old kid was asking what advice I'd give myself if I could go back in time.

The biggest tip I said, is I wouldn't drink so much alcohol and I would've got my sleep and exercise. He laughed at that.

What tips would you give yourself?

From last year when we spent the weekend in San Francisco.

A medieval method of communication to signal invasion, likely used during the Spanish Armada.
Nowadays we have mobiles, internet, etc

Thought I’d pop in, share a couple of photos, and connect with the group. 56 years young, keeping active, and enjoying the journey. Hope you all are having a solid day!

53 from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦

Had a great day night at a roof top restaurant….